No, a country won’t love me back. It won’t even take care of me when I’m sick or ensure I can access basic necessities for life.

I want a good place to live but I’m not going to love the place. I’ll put in work and organize to get that better place but simply out of a desire to have a good life and make a good life possible for those around me. None of that requiress love for an arbitrary division of land. Besides the US exists on land stolen from the tribes folk. I’m not a fan of that either.