• Nat (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    women fill their role now ???

    Do you mean that they’re equal? If so, what’s the problem? Women being allowed to do things doesn’t mean men can’t.

    As a woman, I care about men being emotionally available. I’m gay, so I’m not gonna date/fuck them or anything, but I do care. The people I’ve seen who care the least about it are fellow men. Nobody deserves friends, family, or partners doing that to them.

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      1 day ago

      They’re not equal and they never will be. Women are being screwed over arguably worse and that’s shown by the birth rate, imo. Society has put an expectation on women to go to university and get a career or else seen as a failure. Choosing to be a mom is no longer acceptable in general.

      You’ll probably get triggered at me saying this but women’s role is have kids because men cannot. Men are supposed to be providers and protectors but they aren’t anymore because for some reason we’ve decided to put that expectation on women.

      • Nat (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Expectations are bad, yes, but then here you are pushing your own expectations. I’ve not seen any push against women being mothers except for economic forces.

        My role is not to have your kids. Sure, people can do that if they want, but the roles you speak of are nothing more than how you wish to see things, they have no objectivity, and saying people should do what you want is stupid.

        I gave you the benefit of the doubt despite being suspicious, but I guess you’ve now confirmed you’re just parroting incel talking points with no understanding of the world nor people. You can be a provider if you want, I don’t care, but I draw the line at demanding others conform to your ideals.