• exasperation@lemm.ee
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    23 hours ago

    Also if every woman and or man would be like this it wouldnt be special and you wouldnt look up to it soo… yeah

    I eat food every day, but there are also plenty of meals I’ll remember fondly and think of as special.

    I like hosting dinner parties where I cook for my friends and family. I can assure you that even though I do this for a lot of loved ones, they generally still appreciate each dinner I make. It is still perceived fundamentally differently from a commercial transaction (like buying takeout from a licensed restaurant).

    It doesn’t just apply to food, either. Sometimes it feels good to have someone do something for you, where the exclusivity or rarity of that act doesn’t even factor into whether it feels meaningful.

    So no, your hypothesis of “if everyone was fucking all the time, fucking wouldn’t feel special” doesn’t seem to hold up in comparison to other things in life.