@Gentlewest which begs the question of his reaction: anger, humiliation arousal…all of the above? Did he get to reclaim you afterwards when your body still very evidently showed the signs that you had fucked them?
You are braver than me but yeah over 20 years monogamous, never really satisfied (ex was giving in bed but a once a week one minute guy, then 5 years of none at all when he got crazy) and good sex did give me perspective that broke us up.
@Gentlewest and were you submissive with the man you chucked him with? I guess from reading your posts you sound like a natural submissive albeit one who is clear about her own sexual preferences and self-confident enough to choose submission on her own terms
@Gentlewest which begs the question of his reaction: anger, humiliation arousal…all of the above? Did he get to reclaim you afterwards when your body still very evidently showed the signs that you had fucked them?
The marriage was essentially dead at that point anyway because of his unwillingness to address and deal with his sexual inadequacy.
You are braver than me but yeah over 20 years monogamous, never really satisfied (ex was giving in bed but a once a week one minute guy, then 5 years of none at all when he got crazy) and good sex did give me perspective that broke us up.
@Gentlewest and were you submissive with the man you chucked him with? I guess from reading your posts you sound like a natural submissive albeit one who is clear about her own sexual preferences and self-confident enough to choose submission on her own terms
It was very much a case of here I am, do what you will with me.
@Gentlewest well I hope he knew exactly what he needed to do with you!
Oh very much so!
@Gentlewest your enthusiastic memory of it is palpable
Well it was a major life event for me
@Gentlewest symbolic as well as orgasmic