I am implementing my zero-tolerance policy on my social media. If I come across an unhelpful or hurtful comment, I report it to the moderators and block the user. I prioritize maintaining a safe environment for myself. Being vulnerable does not imply that I am open to being mistreated or taken advantage of.
Just FYI, reports aren’t anonymous on Lemmy. I’ve seen some mods that have banned users over what they felt was report abuse.
I dunno how often you’re running into these comments, so it may not be an issue for you, but just thought I’d make sure you were aware of that, in case you’re in a community with hypersensitive mods.