I noticed there’s a few parents and wannabe parents knocking round. How do you want to raise your kids? What values etc do you want them to have?
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i’ll be happy with “just do better than i did”
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I am instilling in mine 1) a deeply-held belief that their worth is entirely measured by their income, and 2) the unarguable truth that each generation must ensure the comfort and well-being of their parents.
I call it my pension plan.
Love the approach! I would also teach them to address me and my partner as Sire & Ma‘am, if they get good grades in school temporarily they’re allowed to say father and mother.
You maniac! Always drop to Mater and Pater before you go Mother and Father!
Don’t forget the iron fist
Not in the USA
Fair
They learn far more by watching than by listening. If you want to have great kids, be a great person. That was where I failed them.
Beyond that, responsibility and intellectual curiosity and independent thought. I mostly nailed that last one… those little assholes never listen to me even when I have receipts—it has to be receipts they give a damn about. I couldn’t be more proud, but they are difficult.
Empathy and curiosity
And some whimsy! But maybe that’s covered by curiosity
Everyone says they want their kids to be happy but acts as if it is more important for their kids to be professionally successful.
I want my kid to be successful enough to be independent and then put any additional emphasis on enjoying life.
Yep ain’t that the truth! Behaviour shows they care about professional progression not welfare
If I were the kind who’d want children, I’d likely wish to raise them using a scissor lift.
