long story short, he has a history of it. They’ve historically resolved after some medical care and medicine adjustment. Its really hard to tell what’s happening this time. I think a medication change and some trauma triggered it but it’s gotten to the point where he’s continuously flinging slurs, hateful comments, and doing some (probably) illegal and heinous shit.

I’m really not sure what to do. I don’t want to call the cops but idt it matters because he’s gotten several welfare checks already. He’s saying everyone is bullying him when in reality, he’s the one doing the bullying.

He was already hospitalized, to basically no effect. I know there’s not much I can do but it really sucks watching this guy be a wrecking ball through his life, family, and friends.

I really don’t want him to get hurt, but I don’t want him to hurt others even more. Some advice would be helpful.

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    The illegal shit he’s doing is possibly in the realm of revenge porn. Both victims are aware of it and it wasn’t wide spread(ie messaged, not posted online) so I’m opting to let them decide how to move forward.

    I was thinking of trying to contact his doctor, but I don’t know how to find that info, he gets fairly aggressive if asked those questions. This is totally over text communications, we’re states away. I may be able to reach out to someone who does though. I wasn’t sure if contacting someone’s doctor was an okay thing to do.

    Thank you for the advice comrade, its been stressful trying to help him.