Marrying before 30 is the biggest
mistake for a man

I see so many guys in their early 20s getting married. What they don’t realize is that this is the worst time to choose a partner. Because women’s looks peak at 23 this is also the time when they have the most options of guys to choose from, and everyone wants to be with them making the conpetition fierce, most guys in their 20s struggle to get a girl or can’t get a girl at all, on the other hand a mans atractiveness peaks at 40 since its not based on looks but status, between the age mid 30s and 40s the tables have turned and now the guy as a lot of options to choose from, girls are not as atractive as when they were 23 and man are now at their peak. I was never that good with girls and always struggled, lost my virginity at 27, and 33 now and the amount of girls interested in me keeps growing year by year its insane, and it only keeps getting better, i’m dating 2 girls per week on average, in 1 month i can date the same amount of girls i dated during my whole 20s.

Advice to the man under 30 is don’t marry. Don’t settle for what you can get in your 20s and be patient, doesn’t matter if you think you are in love, you can fall in love much harder in your 30s with an even better girl, you got much more options to choose from and you can choose a much better partner.

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Simps and 304’s be mad as hell in this thread but OP is on the money. Getting married anyways is the worst thing an American male can do. It is absolutely pointless and it’s not even a matter of IF things go south it’s a matter of when. Western women are so
coddled and used to things being given to them that it’s absolutely shattered their sense of reality. Every woman I’ve dated, no matter how much love/energy/time/money I’ve given them, remains unsatisfied at a core level because they are always looking over the fence.

Go your own way men. Growth yourself, grow your bank account, grow your relationships with your friends and family, and if you get lonely sites like Seeking.com and escort websites exist. Trust me, it’s an absolute blast being intimate with a 10/10 for 1000 bucks for 3 hours.

(note: I have no idea what a 304 is)

Objectively speaking what OP says is very true.

Men should marry later.

Men mature later. And as men gain more status and wealth with age, so are the options for partners increases

Women should marry early.

Women’s looks go down as they age. (The ability to have children also goes down) Money and status won’t get them more options in men sadly. On the other hand, more money can actually attract bad men.

So men should marry later, and women should marry early for maximizing partner options.

Blinders truly are a catch 😬🤐