• SuperApples@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    When I started driving again recently after a 20 year hiatus I was getting upset when I made mistakes; running stop signs, forgetting indicators, etc.

    But then I realised all I was doing was making it hard to concentrate, which could lead to more errors, maybe even a fatal crash.

    I quickly adopted this “Oops that was illegal but it’s fine” attitude. Notice my mistake, and move on.

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      1 year ago

      It’s probably a healthy mindset to be hard on yourself for running stop signs, you’re gonna get somebody killed dude

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        1 year ago

        I already had the motivation to drive correctly, getting upset wouldn’t improve that motivation, just make driving more difficult.

        I pride myself on being a safe and courteous driver. We all make mistakes, especially when learning.