My parents are 57 and 63. My mother is erratic, forgetful, and when she gets mad she sometimes screams and throws things. My father is slowly going deaf, getting slower and more stubborn and forgetful as well. They can be infuriating sometimes, but I know that they’re aging and I can’t be mad at them. How do I deal with this, especially early on in preparation for further down the road?

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    1 year ago

    Does your father have hearing aids? Studies have shown not hearing well can increase cognitive decline.

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      1 year ago

      And if hearing aids aren’t acceptable for any reason, such as pride or money, some people get good results from Apple AirPods, in accessibility mode

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        1 year ago

        That’s a good point. Samsung has something similar in their settings.