They took off on their bike earlier and when they came back I asked where they’d been. They gave me an odd answer and I smelled a rat. I pointed out the inconsistencies and still they doubled down on the “why don’t you trust me”. I was unwell with worry at this point, I didn’t know what to expect.

I don’t advocate for going through people’s data but I was a little bit insane at this point and I needed to know what was going on, consequences be damned. So after they fell asleep I looked at their phone. The last app that had been opened was 2good2go. The fucker had gone and picked up a free burrito without me and tried to hide it from me 🤣

What does it all mean?? Should I confront them or let it slide??

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      Clearly!! I’d do crazy things for a burrito too, maybe that’s why they kept it a secret 🤔

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          What kind of a world are we living in where someone can’t just get something to eat? No wonder the guy is out there stress eating burritos, he was panicking that she’d find out he’d had a whole calzone to himself for lunch and only got her a limp sandwich.

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            They fucking love calzones too hahahaa. Thanks for this thread guys, I am seeing the funny side to it all! Relationships are hard, at least they’re funny sometimes to make up for it

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          No diet that I’m aware of, so hiding it from me doesn’t make sense from that POV. Maybe they just didn’t want to share??

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              Yeah they’ve needed a lot of that recently. Been some other issues going on in their life that I’m trying to support them through but we definitely deal with pain in different ways. I’m an open book whereas they’re very quiet. Maybe this was a therapeutic burrito. I hope so.

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                Sometimes introverts gotta introvert.

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                Aren’t all burritos therapeutic burritos?

                You sound like a loving and understanding partner.