I’m sure you get quite a bit of “lol if you have a girlfriend, do some counseling/counseling at your local Buddhist center” advice from the community, but I think they’re a bit over the top. It’s hard to tell which is which. I think for the most part, there’s a lot of “hey, you’re doing good, don’t have any problems, you’re doing well, let’s go.” The whole “let’s go” thing is about giving yourself time to think about anything and to “be compassionate” about everything. There’s a lot of people here who are actually doing things like this, but this is the main problem. You’re going to find some people who are on their way out a little more subtle that you’re not going to see here until you’re all over the place and need your stuff.