Two weeks ago, I had a date with a girl I met through a dating app. She was really nice, we had a great conversation and she told in person at the bar she would love to see me again.

Well fast forward a week, I keep texting her to set something up, but she’s not responding. I think she’s ghosted me. I mean, that’s fine, but if you don’t want to date me anymore, then just let me know. I will respect your decision.

Dating is so frustrating sometimes… It’s really fucking hard and I sometimes feel lonely because of my lack of success. I have a good job and I’m a nice guy… but eh… I digress.

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      1 year ago

      The thing is, has he texted 3 times over a week with no response or is he texting 20 times a day.

      I was once chatting to someone for a bit, then I had a nap, maybe 2 hours, and they’d sent me like 10 messages asking why I was ignoring them. I never replied and blocked them because that’s not OK.

      I bet they tell the story as me suddenly stopping replying for no reason.

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          1 year ago

          I don’t mean to suggest she is, just that he might want to correct that behaviour in future to not get the same result.