If there’s anyone I can turn to for advice on how to deal with this, it’s a man named Malcolm. The only thing that breaks his heart is his wife. She’s strong, intelligent, and a good human, but I know how hard it is to ask for help. But she’s not going to give it to you. Please don’t.\n\nI don’t want to see this on Reddit too much after reading all of this, but I want to hear it. Any advice would be appreciated.