• dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    Thanks so much! Guys are so horny and also comfortable hooking up, so even my shyness is trumped by horny energy :-)

    In terms of mostly positive, I think Scruff is much better than Grindr for that purpose. I usually take time (days or more) chatting with guys before I’m going to meet. I also look for guys that have well written profiles and ideally have at least one pic with a genuine smile.

    • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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      1 year ago

      As a fellow penis-owner you don’t need to explain horny energy 😁

      I get the impression that you’re around the City or maybe LI so you probably will have a lot better luck with any app in general than I ever would. One of the fun things about living rural is that your options are usually pretty limited.

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        1 year ago

        A confession: as you’re (probably) bi I looked through your comment history to try and guess your sex. I only posted that line because I found myself totally unsure 🙂

        And yes you’re right I’m on NY Metro so yeah options are amazing. Maybe too amazing. I might need to become more picky 😅

        • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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          1 year ago

          A reasonable and tactful approach as not everyone simply posts pictures of themselves to make things easy 😝. I will confirm for you that I am a bi man haha.

          Have your fun while life lets you. Just be safe in the process!