My response to those sorts of ridiculous claims is,
•Huh.
I guess you haven’t heard of “intersex”.
What do you call a human baby who was biologically born with bits of both??
That usually stumps them for a bit.
Data-does-not-compute.
Oe they ignore it and go back to their original point.
…
at which pt i have to hold empathy-space & validation (≠ does not equate with agreement/condoning, see footnote [1])…
…
and then — if and only if they seem open — ask them about if they’re aware that some human babies — to be clear, not trans folx in most case (well except by way of uninformed/nonconsent at birth, ugh) — but some human babies are born intersex.
usually tho i just leave it
and
no pt in doing so online usually
[1]
hold empathy-space & validation
does not equal
& does not equate with
agreement/condoning
btw, as any good de-escalation specialist (like an fbi hostage negotiator or a therapist or life-coach) can tell explain better than i can rn.
My response to those sorts of ridiculous claims is, •Huh. I guess you haven’t heard of “intersex”. What do you call a human baby who was biologically born with bits of both??
That usually stumps them for a bit. Data-does-not-compute. Oe they ignore it and go back to their original point. … at which pt i have to hold empathy-space & validation (≠ does not equate with agreement/condoning, see footnote [1])… … and then — if and only if they seem open — ask them about if they’re aware that some human babies — to be clear, not trans folx in most case (well except by way of uninformed/nonconsent at birth, ugh) — but some human babies are born intersex.
usually tho i just leave it and no pt in doing so online usually
[1] hold empathy-space & validation does not equal & does not equate with agreement/condoning btw, as any good de-escalation specialist (like an fbi hostage negotiator or a therapist or life-coach) can tell explain better than i can rn.