Having spent a lot of time on Mastodon… There are tons of people there talking about federated and self-hosted services, software freedom, censorship, encryption, tech regulation… A very narrow range of topics directly surrounding the fediverse get a lot of attention.
But nobody talks about anything else. Nobody goes to Instagram to talk about Instagram, nobody goes to Tiktok to talk about Tiktok, nobody goes to Facebook (at all). People use social media to either talk to their friends or talk about their hobbies and interests.
And if your hobby is tech, that’s fine, enjoy. I like tech too. But please, if you have anything else to say, say it. The fediverse will never appeal to the masses if we don’t embrace a wide variety of hobbies and interests.
We need people here talking about cooking. We need people here talking about fashion. We need people here talking about immigration policy. We need people here talking about everything people enjoy!
Yes, if you go to /m/fashion right now, it’s… barely there. You’re not going to get a ton of conversation when you post there. But that’s not the point. The point is to build out the community, so that, a year from now, as more and more people attempt to post and engage, there is a conversation. There’s a reason to be on the fediverse besides the meta circlejerk over how great the fediverse could be in theory.
This is the “content” people are craving. Find or start a magazine for your city, or your town, or your country. Write a post. Share posts from your favorite blogs. Comment on something, if you have anything to say at all. Share a youtube video—yes, a youtube video, I know, youtube sucks, but at least it gives us a path to a community here.
Really? Then please come over here and try to explain the same to my mom. Cuz I’ve tried it a million times, she doesn’t understand the concept and she doesn’t like to understand at this point, all she knows is, it works, like a phone number, it just works. She doesn’t understand why calling her brother abroad without the country’s calling code doesn’t work, I had to type the number in her phone with the country’s code because she didn’t think that was important and just left the code out… cell operators were also a PITA to explain to her, and I don’t think she got that either, cuz she still asks me what the first 3 numbers in front of the cell are and sometimes I give her bogus codes just to see if she’ll go “don’t screw with me”, but she writes them down and never asks me why is this code different from all of the rest that are in use here… not ever.
So please, don’t tell me everyone understands email, cuz they don’t. I’ll bet you whatever you want that, if you do a street questionare and ask people to explain the concept of email as plainly as possible, over 70% with either get it completely wrong or just shrug and tell they have no idea how it works.
Yeah, Tor, sorry. Had a nick on a game, Thorazine, everyone called me Thor there, so now it just slips sometimes.
You don’t need to understand any of that, apparently you have a logic streak in you since you have degree in computer science. One, not everyone has that gift, two, even if they did, they might not have developed it, and three, you went to uni. Please tell me the world statistic (percentage) of people that actually went and graduated. I haven’t seen the statistic either, but I bet it’s no more than 15% on a global scale, which about sums my estimate of over 80% of the population not being able to understand simple things (yes, they are simple IMO) like email or federation. It’s not that it’s complicated, it’s the attention span problem. Uni teaches to have long studying session, weeks, months at a time. People that never did that, they just can’t force their brain to concentrate on one single thing for more than 5 minutes at a time, especially not if they’re not getting paid for it and none of their friends use that thing that you’re trying to explain. The very concept of freedom and having the choice to do things your way or how you’d like to be run, escapes them. They just don’t care. They use whatever their friends, coworkers, family use. Why? Cuz why not. Everyone else uses it, it’s simple, you just type in your phone, reset you password (cuz none of them actually remember it, they’re not used to remembering stuff) and off you go to using that app on your new device.
You proved my point with the last sentence in brackets. People usually don’t care about techie stuff. Techies do, they love it, but regular people… no. Why would I bother explaining something like the fediverse or email to anyone that doesn’t even wanna hear about that. Has anyone ever asked you (out of the blue) “hey man, you know how that mastodon thing works?”. No… and no one ever will… not unless you start explaining first. No one cares dude, because they’re perfectly OK not knowing about that and just living their lives with coproeate social media. It’s a means to and end for them, they don’t actually care about freedom, they don’t even understand why this is free and the other one isn’t, lol 😂, they’re both free to them, except this one is a hell of a lot more complicated for signing up. “Now I gotta chech my email for a confirmation link, great 😒… shit, can’t remember my password 🤦… aaah, fuck this shit.” See how easy it is for normies to give up. Make the sign up process with a phone number and sign ups will skyrocket, I guarantee you that. But… wait, that’s info that I would rather not share with a social network. Yes, for people like you and me, yes, for normies, it’s just easier 🤷.
I’m just real… at least that’s how I see myself.
I have no idea what you’re talking about. Why wouldn’t you just give her a number and tell her that’s the number? Fuck that, why don’t you just send her a contact and tell her “click on Bob and it’ll call bob! Or tell it to call Bob and it’ll call Bob!” Why the fuck would you ever bother to explain country codes to her? Nobody needs to know about country codes, you’re inventing this problem.
I’m getting the impression that when you say you don’t understand email, you’re talking about how people don’t know how email routing works, don’t understand pop vs imap, don’t understand why the sender field is sometimes not accurate. That’s not what I’m talking about, because it doesn’t fucking matter. Everybody knows everything they actually have any reason to know about email. If I asked a hundred people on the street how to send an email, or check their email, one hundred of them would be able to describe the process successfully. You’re just looking for excuses to call them stupid to make yourself feel smarter.
Well, obviously college isn’t the only sign of intelligence, obviously you don’t need a college degree to operate imgur, or upload a photo to kbin, obviously children don’t have college degrees, and obviously different nations and cultures have different systems and norms around education, but:
https://nces.ed.gov/programs/coe/indicator/cac/intl-ed-attainment
So 40%, as of 2021, in OECD countries. Is that good enough for you, asshole?
Also, fun fact, 4.37 billion people use email: https://techjury.net/blog/how-many-email-accounts-are-there/. (yeah, that article is written weirdly).
How fucking stupid are you? It’s literally called social media. You’re confused about why people would rather see what their nieces and nephews are up to than listen to some stranger rant about how stupid everybody, everywhere is?
you should not be remembering your passwords. You know you’re not supposed to remember your passwords, right? I have hundreds of unique, complex, randomized passwords, I don’t remember them. I know a lot of normies who are smart enough to not remember their passwords, Apple and Google are both making it easy. Why are you remembering your passwords? Are you part of that 80%?
They shouldn’t need to. Most people don’t know how IG works and enjoy it just fine. The reason people don’t enjoy the fediverse is not that it’s too complicated, it’s that it’s not enjoyable enough. If people ask me what the deal is, I explain it, but if they ask me why they should join, I can only talk about theory and potential, because there’s nothing worth doing here, it’s all potential. It needs to be an enjoyable place with people who don’t call them idiots and with people who are talking about things they want to talk about.
You don’t need to roll your own server on the fediverse. You don’t need to compile your own app from source. You don’t need to set up your own image server to share images from. You just need to come here and lurk, or vote, or comment, or post, or whatever, and have some fun.
I have no idea what you’re talking about. Plenty of services offer both options because they might as well. Yeah, SMS is less secure. Who cares? This is not a bank account, nobody’s account is gonna get hacked. And email really isn’t secure in the first place. But also, there are plenty of services that only offer email signup, and plenty of people use them, and I’ve never really heard of anybody having an issue signing up with email, my mom manages, my sisters manage, my technophobic cousins manage.
But they would never come to the fediverse in the first place, because the fediverse never really had a selling point that mattered to any of them. They want to see their friends, and their friends don’t use it, or see their hobbies, and nobody talks about their hobbies, or see anything that they could possibly care about, and there’s none of that here. If I paid people to check it out, they wouldn’t stay. I know plenty of people who signed up for accounts and never posted because there’s nothing to talk about, nobody to engage with.
The fediverse will never offer phone numbers as a regustartion option. Why? One, it’s invasion of privacy (something the fediverse is strictly against), and two, it’s a service that costs money, while email is free.
Nobody said it is, it can easily be spoofed. In fact, phone number registration/sign in is far more reliable… but that is invasion of privacy.
Yes, if the services offer “sign in with Google/FB/Twitter”, yes, most people will use that. Ask them if they usually use the last “sign in with email” option and you have your answer… because the other methods I mentioned requires just one click/tap, but not the email option.
It’s best that they don’t in that case.
Great, it’s not for them 🤷. Agree to disagree and move on 🤷.
I beg to differ. There are plenty of subjects that appeal to my interests. It’s just that there are non for most non-tech oriented people. And that’s fine, they have the rest of the social medias for that. Hey, I got a few subs on reddit that will never move here and all of them are tech related. And that’s fine as well, I’ll just visit them from time to time on reddit, don’t get what the big deal is 🤷.
Do you know what an option is? Are you confused about how options work? How is it an invasion of privacy to let me choose between the thing we’re already able to do and a new thing that some other people might choose if they want to?
No, I’m talking about services that only offer email signup. Actually, there is also eBay, which I guess offers a facebook sign in option, but my mom and sister both signed up by email, they found it easier, because they both occasionally use one of the same computers, and they didn’t want to log in and out of facebook to switch ebay accounts.
It’s best that you stop sucking your own dick about how fucking high your consciousness is and how much better you are than everybody else.
Okay, are you going to disagree with my point?
I still know plenty of people who signed up for accounts and never posted because there’s nothing to talk about, nobody to engage with.
You found people here talking about what you like talking about. Why shouldn’t anybody else have that?
Why are you trying to explain email or federation to people? It’s basically the same thing, why in the hell do they need to know that? Oh, yeah, that’s right, cuz they need to understand at least the basics of it in order to be able to join it. Or maybe I should just open an account for them and just add communities I think they might like, then hand over the account… yeah, that’s best I think.
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The point is for them to do it, not me do it, lol. Get them interested, not me do the hard work for them. This is not an email account I open for my granma to make my life easier when paying her bills, cuz she won’t check that email anyhow (one, doesn’t know how, two, doesn’t care as long as the bills are paid). If people are not interested or can’t understand federated networks like email or the fediverse, this is just not for them, period.
No, that is not what I’m talking about at all. I’m talkimg about how basic understanding, what does @mail.server means, what does the uname in [email protected] means, how does the mail server know where to send the email, stuff like that. It’s not quantum mechanics, these are basic things, stuff that most people in 2023 should most definitely know and understand. Guess what, most don’t 🤷.
No, and I’ll explain why.
The current state in which the fediverse is in, is a bit clunky. This instance doesn’t federate with that instance, god knows why, you can’t join this or that comm/mag, god knows why as well, users on Lemmy can’t follow other users, period. Not to mention things like, you search for this or that comm, but the search doesn’t return anything. Ah, but if you put in the full URL of the comm/mag, the search does return results… but you have to wait for a few seconds for results to appear 🤨… why is that? And I tap/click on that comm and I wanna join it, but it says I’m logged out 🤨… I’m logged in, I clearly am, WTF is this 🤦.
See, these are problems that you can’t explain unless that person has basic understanding of how the fediverse works. If they don’t understand or can’t understand, than this thing is just broken for them and/or too complicate. And they’ll, of course, leave.
Granted, some of these things are just bugs, but some of them have valid explanations that can only be explained if you want to have or already have a basic understanding of how federated services work.
I’m not even gonna answer that, since you obviously always resort to insults when you feel threatened.
Thay doesn’t mean they understand the concept of email. Which is not a must for using email, but when the fediverse is in question, I believe it should be… otherwise, the current state in which the fediverse is in will appear broken.
Once again, not gonna endulge you with an answer.
I don’t remember them (some of them, yes). I have them tucked away in a safe place. Why don’t use Google for saving my passwords? Oh, well, maybe it’s because I don’t trust it 🤷.
The real issue here is why they haven’t saved their email password in the first place. Maybe it’s because they don’t actually use it and they opened it up only to send CVs when applying for jobs… or to open up a FB/Twitter account.
Only a feaction of those 4.2 billion actually use email, the others just open their accounts when they have to… which is mostly when they need to reset their social media accounts passwords.
That is because IG emplyees take care of the geeky stuff in the back. Guess who takes care of that in the fediverse.
You might have to if you wanna upload 7, 8MB images and 300MB videos from your phone… cuz no instance will allow that. On the other hand, that wroks just fine on any other social network.
If you don’t like how something works or you wanna chamge it your liking, you will have to.
You won’t have to do that if you set up your own instance.
If you wanna do everything exactly like you did on other social networks, media wise, yes, you’ll have to. Almost every instance now has a limit on image size uploads. Some have it set to 100kb, enough to upload an avatar… and that’s it. Hey, running servers costs money, the rate at which the fediverse is growing means at least 1GB of media per day, that is A LOT 🤷.