• Wanderer@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Just choose a hobby and do that once or twice a week as your time. If she has any issues tell her to fuck off.

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      1 year ago

      She’s not mean, she’s just indifferent and distant. An emotional wet blanket

      • Wanderer@lemm.ee
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        1 year ago

        What I’m saying its okay for you to do your own things.

        You don’t need to be around her 24/7 and something that will make you happy and recharged could be good for you both.

        It’s like the oxygen mask. You got to put yours on first before helping others

      • Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        1 year ago

        On the spectrum? Or the dark triad spectrum? Inb4 you tell me she’s a surgeon or one of those insurance mathematicians.

      • jandar_fett@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Maybe try therapy? Would you she be up for that and would you? Just thinking out loud. There is usually a reason people are indifferent and distant, and if you guys had a setting you could analyze and talk about it, maybe that would be good?