• grizzledgrizzly
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    1 year ago

    How is it confusing? You don’t think people should be held accountable for their actions? Why didn’t he conduct himself in a way that didn’t leave him in this position? Why is it her fault for speaking out and not his for acting in a way that allows this to even be happening?

    • ChrisLicht@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      It’s one thing to be held accountable for being a selfish fuckface; it’s another to have your most private communications broadcast to the world.

      The fact that anyone thinks the scale of this accountability or retribution is appropriate is disturbing. This whole thing is dystopian.

    • GregorGizeh@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      Of course he should be held accountable, but I still don’t see how any of this is business of the public.

      This is very tame and average relationship drama, most people act immature or selfish or otherwise not in the most text book kind of way when emotions are involved. He’s not beating her or gaslighting her or whatever other actual violence he could be inflicting on her, he just doesn’t want her to do bikini pics for the public while she is his partner.

      Is he doing it in the most mature and respectable way? Possibly not. Is that even news worthy? Hell no