• Blue@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I’m gonna let you in on another secret, a hard life makes people like my mother, a coddled person tends to be very emotional.

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      11 months ago

      Since you are a rational person and not just emotionally reacting, I bet you have a credible source for these blanket statements. Can you name one, please? Because I can’t find even one.

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        11 months ago

        Are you getting triggered or something? Yes my mother is that way, but in contrast my father is pretty much a manchild, can’t keep control of his emotions.

        All the women I have dated doesn’t include you, so stop proyecting yourself on that statement. Maybe I feel attracted to those kind of people in virtue of my own emotional simplicity, just like her. It’s all anecdotal evidence, never claimed that’s the way the world works nor I believe it is. If people read my statement and starts believing that is the way the world works, not my problem.

        More anecdotal evidence: when you don’t know what are you going to eat today you don’t have time for bitching and moaning, not first world poverty, but abject third world poverty.

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          11 months ago

          I am not sure if this was supposed to be a response to my comment or got their accidentally ?

          I asked if you have a source for this claim, because I couldn’t find any:

          a hard life makes people like my mother, a coddled person tends to be very emotional.

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      11 months ago

      a coddled person tends to have very poor emotional regulation in the opposite way your mother is poor at regulating her emotions.