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Cake day: May 29th, 2023

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  • @emi What worked best for me was going in to Sephora and getting a makeover there. She didn’t know how to deal with trans features and did an awful job, but I walked away from it with a lot of useful techniques that let me start experimenting in a meaningful way. It also meant that I could watch short tutorial videos and make sense of what I was watching














  • @Matte I haven’t found that. I mean, luck is definitely involved of course, because it has dice, but with good preparation, you can mitigate the luck elements, and it becomes more a game of longer term planning than make or break based on a single roll.

    That being said, Rallyman Dirt also has an interesting change that addresses part of that. The lead player rolls different white dice to the other players, with a slightly higher chance of failure. So being in first place for too long increases your risk, but giving up first place makes it hard to be certain you’ll get it back.

    @ada


  • I always knew my gender was “wrong”. It was a workmate (and now close friend) transitioning that made me realise that my gender being “wrong” meant that I’m trans, and that transition was possible.

    As for my orientation, that was a much longer and more confusing journey. It brought me so much more pain and uncertainty than my gender ever did. I’ve given up trying to find the right labels, but that’s more an admission of defeat than ownership of who I am.


  • As an instance admin, the instances that I block are explicitly ones that I don’t want my users to be able to subscribe to for any reason because they are full of bigotry and hate.

    If I have a user that really wants to subscribe to a blocked instance, then chances are my instance is the wrong one for them.