SOMA is a horror game/walking simulator (depends on the critic) about a man who has his brain scanned as he is dying of brain bleeding caused by a car accident months prior. By having his brain scanned, it actually copies his consciousness, and he ends up transported to a far flung apocalyptic future.
I don’t want to spoil too much, it’s an amazing game with fantastic dives into rather dense and challenging ethical and philosophical questions. My reference to this post was about the fact that, in the future, an artificial intelligence fashioned a sort of “flesh nexus”—the AI was given the sole task of preserving human life, and in its reasoning, if a person is dying, they can be converted into something different that will live on indefinitely.
PLEASE, either go play the game (it’s not extremely long) or watch a good let’s play.
I cede your point though I respectfully disagree. I am also a father, and I do not game (haven’t in a couple years, really), but I do not see a problem with leisure activity as an adult. Why are you reading a book? Your child is awake. You shouldn’t ever practice a craft, or go on a walk, or have date night, because otherwise you’re not being a “kickass father” to your daughter. I would say your opinion is reactionary to having neglectful parents, and I empathize and I’m glad you’ve found a rewarding path to raise your child. I like to think that I am a good father, empathetic, authoritative, and yet I still take time to write, play guitar, fuck around online. Becoming a parent should not mean negating one’s own desires and quality of life. Children are not parasites, they are individuals.
The people you describe are, I would say, aberrant and their behavior is not becoming of a good parent.