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Cake day: January 3rd, 2024

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    • Tell me about some of your favourite people when you were a child.

    • Do you remember any interesting sounds from your youth?

    • What was it like learning english? How did you start?

    • What were your first impressions when arriving in the USA?

    These are all just conversation starters of course. You have to be ready to jump on the thread of a story she really wants to tell and pull on it to get more details and viewpoints.

    Using sensory anchors like sounds or smells will really get your questions closer to memory triggers. “What did your favourite bakery smell like?” And then stuff will come up, like shortages or foreign treats, and that’s maybe a good story to follow.

    Basically whenever possible, encourage her to “tell me about” life back then, and follow up with short questions asking for clarification or details.