Helpful, thanks for writing this. I have an FT-65R and I feel similarly. It’s a solid piece of gear, but could have had a lot more user design work applied to it at this price. I don’t know what it is about amateur radio, but it seems extremely conservative in terms of resistance to modern features and practices for a technical hobby. Not universally, a lot of SDR gear feels modern, but in many areas of the hobby things feel almost steampunk. The concepts are familiar and the hardware is capable, but the manner of implementation is of another era.
Millennial here. I used computers from a very young age, and when my near-continuous use became untenable, my parents got me my own: first computer was a Macintosh IIfx, then a Sun Ultra 1, then a Power Mac G4 (the stripes on the front, handles, don’t remember exact model name). Everything after the G4 has been less exciting, even if it’s all more powerful. Not sure if this is because I’ve gotten older or if the gear has gotten less fun.