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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • reevto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    4 days ago

    Just because you don’t want someone in your life anymore doesn’t mean you wish for their downfall? Human relationships are a complicated thing.

    “I forgive you for your actions and am willing to let bygones be bygones but can’t see you the same way anymore.”



  • reevtoAutism@lemmy.world2meirl4meirl
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    7 days ago

    Okay but some people might not be comfortable speaking out about it themselves. I don’t think I, a white guy, “shouldn’t be allowed to complain” if I hear a coworker use the N word, or using some terms that are extremely derogatory towards women. You could argue that’s complaining on behalf of a community, even one I’m not part of.

    I agree that we should normalize being more open with when borders are crossed but some people aren’t comfortable with that (probably because people have been jerks about it before). But those people might still be hurt by that kind of language.

    There’s a lot of nuance on this whole topic.








  • reevto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonePillow rules
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    16 days ago

    Jokes aside body pillows are great, especially for side sleepers. Can improve sleep posture (a common back pain cause) and doesn’t need to have an anime character on them. The fact that they can is certainly a bonus though.