Could be a partner, roommate, coworker, or somebody you volunteered with. They could have stopped for any reason from leaving, getting sick or hurt or even dying to just getting sick of doing that one thing and stopping.

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    2122 days ago

    The gradual increase in responsibility. They have to pay board. A roster for dinners, a bill out into their name (one that you can deal with being cut off for a little bit (!!!).

    But ultimately, it is also out habit of just getting it done that means we just do it.

    I expect that it is a conversation and agreement of shared tasks and responsibilities.

    Cutoff access to wifi and don’t pay phone bills, plenty of ways to get started, but it always starts with a chat.

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      422 days ago

      Yeah, we’re working out how to have that chat and to put some agreed upon goals into place so that no one is suddenly surprised by unspoken expectations. It’s hard, though. We’ll get through it.