i feel like it’s such a big part of my life but i don’t talk to anyone about it… i’m about to go to bed and i stroked myself to orgasm so many times, shot so many loads out… sometimes i wake up in the middle of the night horny and fuck my pillow before i fall asleep again… it feels so good and i feel so connected to my body… i love being horny and have no one to share it with haha…

what’s your favorite ethical porn… i feel like lemmy nsfw is alright about it, tho probably not perfect… i think i’ll sign up for kink.com, i think it might be the only ethical porn site with hard enough porn for my tastes… oh well, it be like this

gngnngng i’ll read replies tomorrow sometime

  • southsamuraiEnglish
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    5 months ago

    It’s all good, there’s nothing wrong with some mutual rambling lol

    But, the folks I meant are the ones that rattle off bios of dozens of porn actors off the top of their heads. Which, I agree, isn’t far off from folks that do it with conventional actors! It’s a blurry line between interest and obsession.

    And I definitely feel you regarding self love being a wonderful thing by itself, and sexuality not being exclusive to a partnership. The kind of skin hiker hunger you mentioned, the craving of human touch, is also a separate thing from sexuality and partnerships sometimes.

    I guess what I’m saying is that I feel you, I get where you’re coming from (and those double entendres weren’t intentional, but I’m leaving them now that I notice them lol).

    Having a high libido definitely adds “pressure” to finding a good sexual balance with the self, and partners. Self love is still love, and there’s nothing wrong with fucking yourself into a stupor :). I know in my younger days, I always found it a bit unbalanced to try and expect partners to fulfill my entire sexual needs. Even when a partner matched my libido, it just seems off to place all that on another, if you get me.