i feel like it’s such a big part of my life but i don’t talk to anyone about it… i’m about to go to bed and i stroked myself to orgasm so many times, shot so many loads out… sometimes i wake up in the middle of the night horny and fuck my pillow before i fall asleep again… it feels so good and i feel so connected to my body… i love being horny and have no one to share it with haha…
what’s your favorite ethical porn… i feel like lemmy nsfw is alright about it, tho probably not perfect… i think i’ll sign up for kink.com, i think it might be the only ethical porn site with hard enough porn for my tastes… oh well, it be like this
gngnngng i’ll read replies tomorrow sometime
It’s all good, there’s nothing wrong with some mutual rambling lol
But, the folks I meant are the ones that rattle off bios of dozens of porn actors off the top of their heads. Which, I agree, isn’t far off from folks that do it with conventional actors! It’s a blurry line between interest and obsession.
And I definitely feel you regarding self love being a wonderful thing by itself, and sexuality not being exclusive to a partnership. The kind of skin hiker hunger you mentioned, the craving of human touch, is also a separate thing from sexuality and partnerships sometimes.
I guess what I’m saying is that I feel you, I get where you’re coming from (and those double entendres weren’t intentional, but I’m leaving them now that I notice them lol).
Having a high libido definitely adds “pressure” to finding a good sexual balance with the self, and partners. Self love is still love, and there’s nothing wrong with fucking yourself into a stupor :). I know in my younger days, I always found it a bit unbalanced to try and expect partners to fulfill my entire sexual needs. Even when a partner matched my libido, it just seems off to place all that on another, if you get me.