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Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 months ago

I have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.

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I have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.

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Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 months ago
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    I love your look! Is that purple(?) thing like basically sleeves with a hoodie you pop over things? Whatever it is, it’s fab and I want one.

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      Seconding. Love plague doc asthetic.

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        That’s actually my wife (not pictured) who rolls that aesthetic. I just try to dress like the protagonist of a yet-unreleased Final Fantasy. :D

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      It’s black, actually! Came from here: https://www.etsy.com/listing/548441223/dams-deluxe-apocalypse-militant-shrug?ref=yr_purchases

      Granted, I’m wearing it in a less-revealing way than the creator intended.

      This vest, in black, is over the top of it: https://www.mishuboutique.com/products/copy-of-neelix-v2-vest?srsltid=AfmBOoqfOAC5IcENC_N0wNjG6kBhafvPoHAXly_UiVuVEARdzQcNOkn4

      Not pictured (but seen in older posts of mine) is: https://www.mishuboutique.com/products/leather-eclipse-silver

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        That shrug (TIL lol) is so cool, but now that I see that the vest is full length I honestly don’t know which I love more!

        If I could afford it (and left the house more than once in a blue moon), my wardrobe would be full of these kinds of pieces. 😍

        (E: also - why the fuck would anyone downvote you?? 😂)

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          (Those downvotes are coming from me—I think it’s presumptuous to give me my own approval. However, what I do isn’t what others should do, do what works for you.)

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          I’ve got posts in my history that should show you more of my insane wardrobe. :D

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            Will definitely have a non-stalkery look lol

            Also you do you with the downvotes, I’m just glad it isn’t someone trolling the post/community to be an ass.

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            I knew I’d seen those glasses before (I’m terrible at remembering faces lol), I now recall seeing your post of you and your wife and thinking how cute you both are!

            Also you’re killing it in the thigh highs and leather skirt.

            I would absolutely raid your wardrobe lmao 😊

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