• explodicle
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    2 hours ago

    I wouldn’t say anything because some women find elevator pickup attempts intimidating.

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      1 hour ago

      Tbf women say they find just interacting with men at all intimidating, see: Bears. I just don’t talk to anyone anymore tbh.

      I’m gonna die alone with my cats, but at least I won’t be called creepy for asking a woman out for coffee!

      Use the apps

      No, privacy nightmare.

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        52 minutes ago

        No that’s not fair, they do not. Don’t be creepy in the elevator, or alone in the woods, or anywhere else where you guys are gonna say “because of the implication”.

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          22 minutes ago

          Also don’t ask women out at the gym, at work, in a store, on the street, or any hobby where they just want to enjoy themselves and not have to be asked out politely or otherwise.

          The only acceptable places according to women are on the apps and in bars, or church supposedly if you’re one of those.

          I don’t do the privacy violating apps, I don’t drink much anymore, and both of those are more “hook up” culture while I want like “an actual relationship,” and church just isn’t for me. Like, I could go hang out but I’m not going to believe in your gods, and that is a point of contention with the faithful.

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        1 hour ago

        Way back when I was single, I could pick up a woman without even having to corner her.