• otp
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    10 hours ago

    “those tend to be” probably should’ve been “those tend to include”

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      9 hours ago

      That seems like a reasonable reading and yet even so, I think the article pushes it. I was the primary care giver for my sons and I can’t imagine that even the “chattiest years” would have amounted to more than 5 or 6 years. Kids very quickly get involved in school, friends, etc., to the point that conversations subside. And by the time kids are older, it is difficult sometimes to get as much conversation from them as you’d like.

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        8 hours ago

        I wonder if it could’ve been less “conversations” and more “motherly checking in”. Or, as some boomer husbands might call it, “nagging”