And that is how I found out the hard way that my uncle was posting shit on here. Who was posting crap about my mom on a mom group that he belonged too. Who was shilling for his friend. Who was just shilling for his girlfriend. Who was bragging about his hookup with the girl that never showed up. Who was bragging about his hookup with a trans woman that he met last week when we were all supposed to meet up for brunch at a restaurant. Who was bragging about his hookup with a woman that he met only a little over a week ago. Then he made a post bragging about his girlfriend confirming that she didn’t want to hookup with him or have brunch with him. And the reason she didn’t show up was because she is on a women’s group that doesn’t want men like us. I don’t have daughters. I don’t have sons. I’t have any boys. I’t have any. And so now I feel like I’m basically a shitty dad because I found out about this and then he took it and ran with it. \n\nAnd I feel like an idiot because I can’t bring myself to say something to my kid about it or do anything about it or try to make it stop. I feel like a horrible father because I can’t bring myself to be considerate about it or try to understand what he is going through. \n\nI don’t know if I’m looking for sympathy or whether I’m just looking for someone to blame. Ifinished college. I have kids. I should be handling this stuff by now. But I keep coming here and saying things like “you should have just said no to that guy” and I don’t know how to help myself. I don’t know how to be a dad or respond to this stuff. \n\nHas anyone else experienced this? Any advice?