I feel like sex is weirdly both over and underrated by society. There’s put far too much emphasis on sex as this be all end all super special thing, and at the same time it’s underrated about how nice it can be if you let it and remove any hangups about it (such as religious shame), and embrace it fully (as in, accepting and indulging in kinks, your sexuality, etc.).

For me it’s like, it’s not a special or super serious thing at all, but it’s great and can be a lot of fun, especially together with the emotional closeness. It’s like a hobby. So let yourself be a sex nerd!