Hi, everyone. My girlfriend (15F) is a really good student and athlete. She is a really good student, we have an amazing relationship. Last summer we decided that we don't want to continue being friends unless it's for a specific reason (just something that's super common, like for instance if she wants to be friends with someone new for a summer). So last summer we decided we didn't want to have sex unless it was for a specific reason (just something that's super common, like for instance if she wants to be friends with someone new for a summer).\n\nIt was pretty easy (for instance she can use an egg donor). But this summer she started having trouble. She'd been talking about it a lot and I know she's really struggling with it, so I was thinking I would ask here too.\n\nI'm a huge soccer fan and have been playing since I was 5. In school I was a cheerleader, so I try really hard to perform and have fun. She's been having troubles with balance recently (she fell down the stairs a couple of times and hurts herself really bad, but she's been taking it really hard). So I thought, if she's really struggling with it, maybe it would be something that would help.\n\nShe went to the doctor and she mentioned that there was a possibility that her ovary might not function properly, and that it might damage her kidneys. So I started doing some tests to make sure everything was OK. She was told by the doctor that there wasn't anything to worry about, and that the worst case was benign (there's no cancer, no signs of anything).\n\nSo this summer has really felt like one big “not going to happen” moment. She still goes to sports practices, she still works out, she still goes to school. The relationship hasn't really taken off (like honestly, it hasn't taken off at all). And I've been working a job too, which I love, and she still does a lot of it (though I'm the backup). But she hasn't really found another job that fits her personality and makes her happy. So it's been hard lately.\n\nHas anyone else had/had this dilemma? Or do you just have to deal with it and move on?
Hi, everyone. My girlfriend (15F) is a really good student and athlete. She is a really good student, we have an amazing relationship. Last summer we decided that we don't want to continue being friends unless it's for a specific reason (just something that's super common, like for instance if she wants to be friends with someone new for a summer). So last summer we decided we didn't want to have sex unless it was for a specific reason (just something that's super common, like for instance if she wants to be friends with someone new for a summer).\n\nIt was pretty easy (for instance she can use an egg donor). But this summer she started having trouble. She'd been talking about it a lot and I know she's really struggling with it, so I was thinking I would ask here too.\n\nI'm a huge soccer fan and have been playing since I was 5. In school I was a cheerleader, so I try really hard to perform and have fun. She's been having troubles with balance recently (she fell down the stairs a couple of times and hurts herself really bad, but she's been taking it really hard). So I thought, if she's really struggling with it, maybe it would be something that would help.\n\nShe went to the doctor and she mentioned that there was a possibility that her ovary might not function properly, and that it might damage her kidneys. So I started doing some tests to make sure everything was OK. She was told by the doctor that there wasn't anything to worry about, and that the worst case was benign (there's no cancer, no signs of anything).\n\nSo this summer has really felt like one big “not going to happen” moment. She still goes to sports practices, she still works out, she still goes to school. The relationship hasn't really taken off (like honestly, it hasn't taken off at all). And I've been working a job too, which I love, and she still does a lot of it (though I'm the backup). But she hasn't really found another job that fits her personality and makes her happy. So it's been hard lately.\n\nHas anyone else had/had this dilemma? Or do you just have to deal with it and move on?