• aeronmelon@lemmy.world
    971·
    1 year ago

    “Dammit, I could have been with a girl who gets drunk and fucks random people in the bathroom!”

    Keep aiming high, Anon.

    • papabobolious@feddit.nu
      31·
      1 year ago

      It’s the incel delusion that if you just acquire a girlfriend and/or lose your virginity all your crippling social issues and anxiety goes away. You wake up as Chad the next morning.

        • Flyswat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
          61·
          1 year ago

          If and only if you hold it as a measure of one’s fulfillment.

          People no longer make love but have sex. The shallow interaction is now sought more than the long-term endeavour.

      • tetris11@lemmy.ml
        3·
        11 months ago

        It… does help a lot. I think there are a lot of young adults out there who go through life with dead hearts thinking that they’re not worth anything and that intimacy is a hollywood trope. Then you experience it both physically and emotionally, and the world really isn’t the same again.

        Plus, if you go through life thinking you’re not worth anything, then you will develop social ticks like anxiety, stammers, OCD, you name it. Hell, in my case, going to the gym did more for me than years of psychiatry ever did.

      • recarsion@discuss.tchncs.de
        1·
        1 year ago

        I mean he’s only partly wrong. It sucks when you’re not having it, but when you are, it doesn’t fix any other problem in your life.

  • LainOfTheWired@lemy.lolEnglish
    702·
    1 year ago

    Parties and sex don’t mean you’re living. That’s just usually something glamorised by Hollywood and social media.

    This guy seems like he has a tight knit friend group and a common hobby they all enjoy. As long as they’re working towards meaningful goals in their lives, I’d say he’s actually got it better then his drunk friends.

  • AstralPath@lemmy.ca
    47·
    1 year ago

    “Its my Mom’s fault that I’ve got no life.” Spins in racer chair and queues up for another game

  • SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz
    29·
    1 year ago

    Does anon know that you can meet friends as an adult?

    I mean, it’s a bit more difficult, sure, but everything is.

    Guess it’s easier to blame your mom instead of taking responsibility for your current life choices.

  • ouRKaoS@lemmy.today
    5·
    1 year ago

    The biggest fuck up in this whole thing was playing League. That’s where the problems started.