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PsychrolutesMarcidus@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml ·
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If you would have a threesome, will it be with a girl or a boy and why?

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If you would have a threesome, will it be with a girl or a boy and why?

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  • Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de
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    Neither, I’m not into kids

    • 🐑🇸 🇭 🇪 🇪 🇵 🇱 🇪🐑@lemmy.world
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      The real answer

  • OutlierBlue@lemmy.ca
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    Why? So I could disappoint two people at once?

    • moody@lemmings.world
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      I can barely disappoint one woman, I don’t think I could handle two.

  • TORFdot0@lemmy.world
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    Redditors of Reddit, sex, am I right?

    Believe it or not, despite all the furry porn in the all feed. Lemmy isn’t horny enough for posts like this OP

    • Damaskox@kbin.social
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      I dunno, I see lots of replies here? Being it horny-driven or not.

  • ReCursing@kbin.social
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    One of each, please! I’m pan

    • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.eeBannedBanned from community
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      ^ I’ll have what she’s having.

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    Given my life right now, it would have a couple of no-shows.

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    I’ve had all combinations of threesomes and concluded the mmf is the most fun

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    Nonbinary ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • taladar
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      So no sex with 2, 4, 8, 16,… partners for you?

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    • soli@infosec.pub
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      Yeah, got talked into it by an ex. Wasn’t even really about the awkwardness a lot of people talk about.

      For me, it was initially hot but I ended up with a deep, hollow feeling. You have the same lack of intimacy with the third that makes one night stands unfulfilling, combined with this sort of violation of the intimacy you had with your partner. I actually felt a bit sick afterwards.

      If it’s your thing have at it, there are plenty of different relationship styles and kinks that’d make it much more appealing, but personally I would never consider it again.

    • 𝕽𝖚𝖆𝖎𝖉𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖌𝖍@midwest.social
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      I think it needs practice. Live, your first time 1-on-1 probably was a little awkward and not as good as after you had some experience, threesomes probably get better with experience.

      I’ve only had one, and it wasn’t that great, but looking back I can see how see how awkward we all were. If we’d done it a few more times, or if one of us had been able to guide activities better, I’m pretty sure it would have been more fun for everyone.

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    Both

  • DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone
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    There should be at least one women involved. I don’t think MMM is for me.

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      Wel I guess I know what I’m doing for Mo’ Muscles Movember this year

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    Make it a surprise! More fun that way.

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    Definitely a woman, seeing as both my current FwB and me are mostly into women. 😅 (That’d be FFM, for clarification)

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      Clarifying a cryptic abbreviation with another cryptic abbreviation doesn’t really help matters I’m afraid.

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        FwB is a friend with benefits, usually of a sexual nature, and FFM means either Frankfurt am Main or a threesome with two female and one male participant.

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        Friends With Benefits

        and Female-Female-Male

        :))

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    4some is better, you can go for longer because brakes are possible.

    Also never have a 3some with straight people. They have expectations that will never hold up to reality.

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    One another lady I’d say. Easier that way.

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