Back in the city, and though focused on work, still got up to some naughty stuff:
Met up with a random desi guy near my office. We had a good chat, I rimmed him, and fucked him for a bit, though I didn’t plan to. Finished by jacking off into his hole, and he came himself right after. I dunno, probably won’t see him again. The chemistry wasn’t great.
I was chatting with a match on Hinge, R. He ended up finding me on Grindr lol. His apartment is close to my office so I went over. R and I have a lot in common, We mostly chatted, with a few nice gentle kissing sessions punctuating our conversation. He had his legs draped over my lap. It was so relaxed and sensual and I really enjoyed it. I was there about 1.5 hours. R and I exchanged numbers and will maybe try a more proper “date” instead of just a cuddle and a kiss. He did notice how hard I got during our goodbye kiss ;-)
Saturday was Naked Gaymers Night in Hoboken, hosted by a guy that runs this event monthly. 47 guys, played some video games, had some drinks and food, and did a white elephant gift exchange. Most of the guys weren’t really my type (chubs and bears), but a few were very hot. Topped a guy for a bit, couldn’t keep my hands (and mouth) off this other lean blonde, came once in one guys mouth, then once more with another guy who was squeezing my balls as we were both lying down and making out on the futon while a bunch of guys played Smash Bros in the same room :-P
I got really hard from my goodbye makeout session when the lean blonde was leaving, so someone was quick to get on their knees and take care of me. It made his early departure sting a little less.
When we went from underwear to totally naked (about an hour in) it felt so much more comfortable. I felt freed and unrestricted
The compliments I got were really good for me
Got numbers for a few of these guys so we can stay in touch and meet up
Sunday connected with a guy who is looking to be FWBs, so he came over and we chatted for a couple of hours. Nice guy, lean tall side/bottom. We’re open to figuring out if we can be friends and how to add the benefits in.
After he left I couldn’t sleep and was feeling pretty horny. Two guys invited me to their hotel room around 5am for some fun, so I went. It was weird.
Younger guy was smooth, and had nice muscle
Older guy didn’t join in, and had some kind of glass drug thing he was using. They asked if I smoked, I said no, and I don’t know what that is, they said don’t worry about it.
Younger guy gives a really nice BJ. We fooled around for about 50 minutes or so, with him taking poppers from time to time. It was fun to tease his hole or rim him while he worked on me.
Older guy comes back in the room and says it’s time to wrap it up, so I cum with the younger guy getting a good taste of my balls, it was pretty hot.
That was all strange enough that I’ve blocked that profile on Grindr now.
I got a smoked salmon, avocado, and fried egg sandwich on a bagel on the way home around 6am :-)
Okay we’re picking out that detail, eh? The sandwich didn’t have them by default. And my hot take? Capers don’t belong on any sandwich because they’ll pop out and fall as soon as you start eating.
God, it’s these kinds of stories that make me want to explore my bisexuality. All these adventures…
I’m male cis-bi but never had the chance to actually do anything with dudes.
I took the plunge a few months ago. I’m very glad I did.
Of course, from a sexual point of view, there are new things to discover. But the experience goes far beyond that.
I find the sensuality between men very different, whether in the sense of touch or in the way they embrace.
And on a more intellectual level, being with a man challenges the script of the normalized heterosexual sexual relationship. And since you have to reinvent yourself with a guy, it’s an opportunity to do so in your hetero relationships too.
In short, if you’ve got the desire and the opportunity, don’t hesitate!
Kinsfw already said everything I was going to say, so basically just a biiig +1 to his post,
If you’re already in a monogamous LTR I do not know how to approach it, especially if you’re not out to your partner. However, you should be your full self, and even if it’s just fun, it’s fun and a new experience :-)
Back in the city, and though focused on work, still got up to some naughty stuff:
Straight CIS male, why no capers on the bagel sandwich?
Okay we’re picking out that detail, eh? The sandwich didn’t have them by default. And my hot take? Capers don’t belong on any sandwich because they’ll pop out and fall as soon as you start eating.
God, it’s these kinds of stories that make me want to explore my bisexuality. All these adventures… I’m male cis-bi but never had the chance to actually do anything with dudes.
I took the plunge a few months ago. I’m very glad I did.
Of course, from a sexual point of view, there are new things to discover. But the experience goes far beyond that.
I find the sensuality between men very different, whether in the sense of touch or in the way they embrace.
And on a more intellectual level, being with a man challenges the script of the normalized heterosexual sexual relationship. And since you have to reinvent yourself with a guy, it’s an opportunity to do so in your hetero relationships too.
In short, if you’ve got the desire and the opportunity, don’t hesitate!
Thank you for sharing
Kinsfw already said everything I was going to say, so basically just a biiig +1 to his post,
If you’re already in a monogamous LTR I do not know how to approach it, especially if you’re not out to your partner. However, you should be your full self, and even if it’s just fun, it’s fun and a new experience :-)
Yay! You’ll have to tell us if you have a date with R 🙂
Are you meeting up with Sunday guy any time soon?