Become a feminist. It doesn’t mean you kowtow to every whim and women are always right and better than you. It means you take your fair share of running the household and the relationship.

Read this; https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2017/may/26/gender-wars-household-chores-comic

Learn about the Second Shift and Mental Load. Together, make a job board of things that need to be done around the house and divvy up work.

If one partner knows how to do a housekeeping task, they other should know too.