Or, alternatively, what did you do to another person which got you blacklisted from their life?

  • AphoticDev@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 year ago

    She left us. And hey, if you don’t want to be in someone’s life, you have the right to just leave. And I’m not saying she should have stayed, if she wanted to go. All I’m saying is, maybe your kids deserve at least a hug goodbye, mom. Or maybe even a note? Especially since we didn’t have a dad either?

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      1 year ago

      That’s so heavy, how did you two stabilize yourselves after she left?

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        1 year ago

        Stabalize? Hahaha what’s that? Seriously though, even typing it here makes me want to cry. How do you get over your mom (and dad) not wanting you?

        We did the best we could, grew up, and built our own families. And you better be damn sure my kids don’t leave the house or go to bed without me giving them hugs and kisses and telling them I’ll miss them/love them. They might go “daaaaaad” and sigh like I’m being super embarrassing and wasting their time, but when I’m dead and gone, they’ll never wonder if they did something wrong to make me not love them.

        Whew, I think I need to go look at some funny videos or something after that! I wasn’t expecting to get teary on Lemmy at work!