Are there some practical things you can do at that point? Or is that the cue you should just leave?

Some context: It’s a Latin dance party. Meaning you dance with a partner. I do not have a very much experience with it (about 16 lessons, with half of them being repeats). I go there with some people I know, but am not all too well acquainted with.

  • RagnarokOnline@programming.dev
    44·
    6 months ago

    Look, I’ll be honest with you: I don’t know how this is going to go. You’ll have plenty of opportunity to be a fly on the wall.

    That said, you’ll have plenty of opportunity to put yourself out there, too. By asking for a dance, you’re communicating “I’m here to have fun”. Try to say that to as many people as you can and you’ll have a blast.

    Also, Salsa is so dang easy to do the basic step. 90% of the Latin dances I’ve been to have been just doing the basic step for the whole song and looking at people around me for inspiration of moves to try.

    You’re gonna do great.

  • LazaroFilm@lemmy.worldEnglish
    26·
    6 months ago

    Remember this: no one cares if you’re not a good dancer. What matters is that you are having fun. It’s also okay to be a fly on the wall, it’s okay to move your feet slightly while hugging the wall. It’s okay to close your eyes and pretend you’re dancing in your bedroom in front of your mirror, it’s okay to walk away and take a break if it becomes too much. Don’t force it, just remember to ask yourself if you’re enjoying what you’re doing. A party is about having fun, not winning a contest of popularity or a dance-off (you can totally have a dance off if you want to though). Enjoy!

    • nocturne@sopuli.xyz
      6·
      6 months ago

      Ask people if they would like to touch your monkey.

      Edit oops meant that as a reply to the op. Oh well, now it is the time on sprockets when we dance.

    • intensely_human@lemm.ee
      2·
      6 months ago

      Some context: It’s a Latin dance party. Meaning you dance with a partner. I do not have a very much experience with it (about 16 lessons, with half of them being repeats). I go there with some people I know, but am not all too well acquainted with

      • LazaroFilm@lemmy.worldEnglish
        1·
        6 months ago

        My points are still valid. Because some people decide to dance with a partner and follow dance moves doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to enjoy your time and dance by yourself, just don’t take the center stage maybe. If anyone judges you for trying to trance then they’re the bad dancers. Vance should be inclusive, especially at a party. Have fun, and don’t stress it.

  • xmunk
    25·
    6 months ago

    Just fucking enjoy yourself - however you prefer to do so.

    • VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world
      13·
      6 months ago

      I’m an introvert and this is something I’ve learnt. If I’ve agreed to go to an event then the event will only be as fun as I let it be.

  • VoldemortsHorcrux@lemmy.world
    20·
    6 months ago

    Chat to other wall flies/bar tender. Dance around in your own(I’ve seen guys/gals at the salsa bars jiggling round and swinging those hips, there aren’t always enough partners). Smile, have a good time. You don’t need others to make it a good time, put out a relaxed positive vibe and it’ll come back to you

    • Minarble@aussie.zone
      2·
      6 months ago

      Also spend some time just focusing on the music and enjoying it… everything else will follow.

  • unknowing8343@discuss.tchncs.de
    15·
    6 months ago

    I’ve said this a few times.

    Parties are not my thing BUT if a friend asks me to go to a party with enough time (maybe 2 weeks), I can mentally prepare, schedule things out, and get my mind ready for a long, tiring night… But hey, with friends, which are people that generally add to your life. Now it’s time to give back and make them smile by sharing that tiring time together.

    Also, hydrate strongly prior to that night, and don’t be hungry. Don’t let anything stupid bring your mood down. And relax and enjoy. You’ve scheduled that time for you to freely waste. Own it.

  • allrian@lemmy.world
    14·
    6 months ago

    It’s about fun. You will find people who still like to dance with you, even if you think you are not a pro.

    Also it is not about hard skill but about the level of fervency! If you dance with confidence, it will look even better

  • PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.comEnglish
    13·
    6 months ago

    Just have fun dancing

    I did this sort of thing once at a Halloween party. I was by myself just dancing and it was fun af. Some random dude told me twice that I was the best dancer there, and I got to dance with a really hot girl for 2 seconds.

    So follow Kat’s advice. Just say fuck it and have fun!

  • pelletbucket@lemm.ee
    12·
    6 months ago

    you should ask a partner “can you teach me how to dance?” if they say yes, you know they have the patience to dance at whatever level you’re comfortable with. and it’ll be a really good time

  • Rolando@lemmy.world
    6·
    6 months ago

    Meaning you dance with a partner. I do not have a very much experience with it (about 16 lessons, with half of them being repeats). I go there with some people I know, but am not all too well acquainted with.

    • Assume you are the least experienced dancer of your acquaintance group.
    • Select the second-least experienced dancer of that group. That person will accept because they’ll look good by comparison.
    • Have fun just trying out the basics with them and laughing about it.
  • Blackout@kbin.run
    51·
    6 months ago

    Just dance like someone is shooting a revolver at your feet and you will do just fine.