Finally found the man I thought I would marry, but the breakup came out of nowhere and I’m struggling to cope. What are the ways you’ve dealt with heartbreak in the past?

    • Roldyclark@literature.cafe
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      11 months ago

      Time with no contact. Any contact with the person and you are reopening the wound. Unfollow, block, they don’t exist.

    • Pilferjinx@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      Yes, time. But what do you do while the memories fade and replaced with? Friends, family, work, hobbies. I picked up a guitar after a devastating break-up that ate a lot of that time needed.

      • Jocker
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        10 months ago

        Yeah, the trick is to get really engaged into something that you don’t have time to think about it.