• Ookami38
      53·
      7 个月前

      Only because we associate sexuality and “getting laid” with manhood. They aren’t the same. Are asexual men less men? No one’s gatekeeping manhood in this image, they’re gatekeeping sexuality.

      • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
        41·
        7 个月前

        But we do associate it with manhood. Until we move on from that mindset, it is an attack on someone’s manhood

            • Ookami38
              12·
              7 个月前

              Societal change starts with the individual. If one person today has changed their views, it’s a step.

              • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
                31·
                7 个月前

                I’m not doubting that, I’m just saying “we” as a society still associates the ability to get laid with manliness. And that’s not changing anytime soon

        • Ookami38
          12·
          7 个月前

          And the way we move on from that is by each of us, individually, deciding that’s not an attack on manhood.

          • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
            21·
            7 个月前

            Right, but to see the difference takes time. Some people are more hung up on the current view than others.