• where_am_i
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    5 months ago

    I like women, I sleep with cis women. I do not want to sleep with trans women. By my personal assessment I’m somewhat transphobic and need to work on that.

    Checkmate, lemmy.

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        5 months ago

        But all 3 are correct. Number two is a bit of an overstatement, but “I need a gf with big tits” is definitely hella objectifying and devaluing another human.

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      5 months ago

      Maybe you are, but do you feel oppressed?

      We’ve all got biases, invisible or no that we’re working on, like you said. Better to know them though

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        With this fuckin lemmy you never know. You say something minorly controversial, you get beaten up. You come out to be transphobic and they pat you on the shoulder. Go figure.

        Although, I’m certainly not oppressed.

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      5 months ago

      Hell I’m trans and I was worried as I never had sex with another penis till I started dating another trans woman. I wasn’t great at it and actually love it after I had my surgery.