From the “This is only news to neurotypicals” department

  • Lucidlethargy
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    3 hours ago

    We thrive, yes… But it takes its toll after repeated incidents.

  • empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 hours ago

    that’s the only way I ever submitted anything in college lmao

    wait what do you mean I’m now suffering from permanent burnout and near adrenal exhaustion and inability to execute on any of my hobbies anymore? No that clearly just means I need more caffeine and to work harder because I’m lazy

  • moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 hours ago

    meanwhile I’m over here breaking down over the possibility that what I say might be misinterpeted as meaning something assholey

    edit: and when I get stressed about something that is actually actionable I just get demotivated

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    Its crazy too becauae I am almost never stressed until SUDDENLY I AM, GOD FUCK I AM SO STRESSED WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED HOW DID I LET THIS GO UNNOTICED FUCK

  • Snapz@lemmy.world
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    7 hours ago

    Yes, but maybe the ability to feel stress helps you to avoid it?

    So maybe those with ADHD can do more in stressful moments… and then die sooner.

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    7 hours ago

    Super interesting. I’ve actually found i thrive best with 3-4 simultaneous contract jobs instead of just one, because I otherwise have too much time to wander or get distracted, versus just staying heads down and working.

    Thought it was just me, but seems like it isn’t, which is nice.

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      12 hours ago

      Yup. I rode deadline panick all the way through to a degree and now it feels like adrenaline just doesn’t work right anymore.

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      I’m pretty sure my baseline cortisol levels could kill a small animal. And probably shortened my lifespan by a few years.

      My AuDHD is flavored by several varieties of anxiety and crippling depression, the former undiagnosed for most of my life and the latter two only being treated sporadically. I’ve had my episodes of shining in times of chaos (usually at work) but my brain’s go-to response is freeze.

      It’s not very effective.

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    11 hours ago

    This worked until I developed GAD. Now it’s hard to get motivated and hard to wind down, lol.

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    12 hours ago

    I work in incident management. I feel comfortable when everything is on fire. Look around like it’s surreal that everyone is so panicked.

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      3 hours ago

      I wonder if that’s why we’re here? We’re the people that act first when the animals attack the village…

      Don’t be fooled, though. It adds up.

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      11 hours ago

      Seriously. How do people not just stop, look around, and make a decision?

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    8 hours ago

    I feel like my adhd is the reason for my extreme stress? I’m inattentive as fuck, which is very fucking stupid because the ptsd symptom I can’t turn off is hyperawareness. I’m always noticing everything, but trying to keep track of it long enough to put into context is a struggle. Life those two symptoms are at odds and making each other worse?

    Even trying to explain it like this feels stupid.

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    11 hours ago

    Isn’t that the medical basis for why we take the stress medicine? Like, isn’t this one of the very few things we actually know about ADHD?

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    12 hours ago

    NT “journalist” : Breaking news: CPTSD & ADHD are closer relatives than previously thought.

    NDs : …