• @[email protected]
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    Probably about 5-10 minutes most of the time.

    Your brain chatters to itself all the time, so if you stfu with the inner monologue and instead just try to eavesdrop on what’s going on in the background, that leads pretty much directly into a dream state.

    • @[email protected]
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      69 months ago

      Thats called WILD!

      Wake Induced Lucid Dreaming, hard to do but pretty cool if you can pull it off.

    • @[email protected]
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      49 months ago

      Same, I have sleep tracks I listen to as well that usually start with a relax/disrupt your self-think exercise and then start describing a scene, like a train ride through pastures, this is not the same as leaving the TV or YouTube running, or an audiobook; it’s intentionally boring and low engagement but it gives you something to focus on listening to so that you don’t get caught up in your own thoughts, similar to the eavesdropping.

      • @Ghyste
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        39 months ago

        May I ask for some suggestions from your collection?

        • @[email protected]
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          29 months ago

          My local library gives me a free subscription to Headspace, so I use their Sleepcasts a lot, if it turns out that yours does too; Cat Marina 1&2 are good times, as is the Slow Train, Rainy Day Antiques, and Temple Rain.

          Otherwise, I haven’t tried them myself, but my sister is a big fan of https://www.sleepwithmepodcast.com

      • DrMango
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        Interesting. I basically do this to myself by counting two breaths and repeating that count while focusing on the darkness behind my eyelids. If I catch my mind wandering I go back to the simple count and staring at my eyelids again. Works pretty well most of the time as I’m not picturing anything nor am I allowing my inner monologue to run away on me.

  • @[email protected]
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    349 months ago

    Surprised I haven’t seen this response yet:

    I say awake doing things until I am on the verge of passing out from being sleepy. If that means I only get 3 hours of sleep, then so be it.

    • @[email protected]
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      99 months ago

      What if you don’t feel that tired the whole night? Would you not sleep and go to work after that sleepless night?

      • @[email protected]
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        29 months ago

        Yuuuup. It’s happened at least once in the last month.

        Usually, though, I end up getting between 5-8 hours a night. (5hrs for the late nights, 8hrs for the next night when I’m so tired I could sleep in a warzone).

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      Finally! Someone who does the same thing! People look at me like I’m crazy when I say I don’t have a sleep schedule. I let my body do the scheduling. Like you, when it comes to staying up all night, I just tell myself I’ll get some bomb ass sleep tonight. Lol

  • PrivateNoob
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    Depends how stressful I am. Sometimes it’s less than 5 minutes, other times I struggle to obtain the eepy stage even after 3 hours.

    • Transient Punk
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      219 months ago

      Personally, I always find you extremely stressful

  • @[email protected]
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    329 months ago

    My wife is appalled that I’m asleep the second i hit the pillow. She could be in mid conversation with me in bed then she’ll just hear snoring.

    It’s a gift and a curse.

  • @[email protected]
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    169 months ago

    ~1h, 30min if I’m lucky. And it have to be absolutely quiet or the timer will reset 🙃

    • a new sad me
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      I’m sharing that pain with you.

      On hot summer days, like now. I can find myself up for 2-3 hours due to the discomfort.

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    Anywhere between an hour or never. I have a small window of opportunity to fall asleep, if I miss it or my sleep gets disturbed, I’m screwed and there’s nothing I can do. I’ll just be tossing and turning the whole night. On work days I probably get about 5 hours of sleep, that goes to maybe 6.5 hours on the weekend.

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    129 months ago

    Ages 0-38: one hour to 3 days, sleep 1-4hrs/session.

    Ages 39+: 5-10 minutes. Sleep 7hrs/session.

    I’m so tired all the time now.

  • @Ghyste
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    Minutes, to hours, to not sleeping at all. It sucks.

  • autumn
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    Usually about 20min? I set a sleep timer on podcasts for 30 min and i usually don’t hear it stop.

    When i can’t fall asleep quickly, it’s maybe an hour? Eventually sleep happens.

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    89 months ago

    before ritalin: 2 to 5 hours, or not at all

    after ritalin: 15 minutes.

    note I take the ritalin during the day, not to go to sleep

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    An hour maybe to get some light sleep, and I can’t get to deep sleep until 5 AM easily.

    I remember a few years ago that suddenly this topic came up with friends, and turns out almost everyone sleeps nicely after 1-5 minutes in bed.

    And I thought my case was normal (it’s been like this since I was a kid). But I’ve been probably losing years of life without a way to gain them back. Depressing.

    • @[email protected]
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      The time it takes to fall asleep is called sleep latency, and mine is also around an hour so you’re not alone. In my case I blame a combination of ADHD and Aspergers, which means that my brain literally always wants to think about interesting stuff rather than quiet down. For about 10 years now I’ve been using ASMR videos as a sleep aid and it helps immensely. I use the ones with people talking and it totally occupies the speech centre of my brain, cutting off my brains ability to keep thinking about whatever interesting thing it wants to think about (it’s hard to think complex thoughts while also trying to absorb what someone is saying)