• Dharma Curious (he/him)@slrpnk.net
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      Docking is foreskin play, inserting something into the urethra would be a type of sounding.

      But if you can sound with an entire human cock, you’re doing something pretty extreme shit

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        I’m deeply enjoying this polite and intellectual discourse re: is this physically impossible act I imagined at 14 years old docking or sounding. Please continue this and all your other weird sexual internet discourse with the same level of polite fervor. :)

        • Dharma Curious (he/him)@slrpnk.net
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          Lmao. I’m not an expert on either docking or sounding, so if one comes along I’ll defer. Lol. But also, I doubt you’re the only kid who thought that. When I was much, much younger than 14 and learned about gay folk (before realizing I myself was gay folk) I didn’t understand the issue, because I didn’t realize sex played into it. I just thought a relationship/marriage was two people raising kids and makings dinner and shit. Lol. Didn’t understand why you’d go to hell for that being two men or whatever.

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            Kids understand things on a very basic level, which sometimes allows them to see through the societal bullshit that complicates life. Sure you were wrong about sex, but overall you were right.

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              Talk to people in their mid-50s and a lot of happy marriages have a fairly minimal sexual component.