I’m in my early 30’s and I’ve literally always been curious about this. I’ve never in my life had the ability to feel sexual pleasure. I’ve never been on any meds or had any sort of traumatic experiences…it’s just the way I’ve always been even if I try. I’m old enough to say that I’m way beyond simply being a “late bloomer”. It’s just something I’ll never experience.

But it often feels like I’m missing a minor sense like taste or smell or something. Everyone has always raved about the taste of dessert, but I’ve never been able to understand or experience it. Can you describe it in detail it for me? Not just the mental part, but the physical part as well?

Thank you.

Sincerely, An Outsider

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    Hmm, I won’t go in super deep (ha) but I will say that masterbation for me feels different than sex. Im one of the lucky women that can climax either/or, and the climax for each is different. Sex is far more intense, and not just about the insertion itself, but the feeling of his body against mine, the smells, the sight, all of it makes for a better climax in the end.

    I usually only masterbate using my clit, and while it does feel very good, it’s far less intense.

    I like it to a very large sneeze that you can feel coming for a little bit before you actually sneeze. That build up of pressure, a tingly sensation that spreads through your belly and the back of your thighs, and then just pure squeeze-y bliss. Mine ripples. I can feel each squeeze. And each one makes every muscle in my body squeeze too.