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While it might not solve this kid’s problem, that menu is missing a great American Thanksgiving side dish that’s been traditional since Thomas Jefferson’s enslaved chef James Hemings made it: macaroni and cheese!
Yes, but it’s also important to remember that this is universally recognized because it’s a common aspect of preadolescent brains. I know this is just a comic, but I’ve seen a lot of parents treat it like willful belligerence (and sometimes it might be), but that’s not necessarily accurate or constructive. Kids don’t choose that their brain makes them prefer certain things and have a visceral aversion to new foods. Some kids can be encouraged to try things and will enjoy them once they’ve tried them, but some kids just can’t do it until their brain is more developed and the disgust reaction to new food dampens.
It’s an extreme example, but I’ve watched my kid try to force himself to eat something because I asked him to try it and he was literally shaking and dry heaving trying to put it in his mouth. IIRC it was a french fry that was shaped differently than the ones he usually eats. Like I said, extreme example, but kid brains are legit wired differently when it comes to food, and that should be respected.
wow. he sure raised you right
Not quite sure what you were hoping to accomplish with this comment. My kid mainly eats broccoli, tomatoes, berries, rice, eggs, carrots, tofu, beets, beans, fish, and spinach. We’ve recently convinced him to eat french fries, chicken nuggets, pepperoni, and noodles. We knew pickiness was possible so we very carefully chose which foods to expose him to from a very young age so his default comfort zone was healthy food. If he has trouble trying new french fries I think it’s reasonable to accept that he has a legitimate aversion that he doesn’t control.
I’d also think the fact that the new food isn’t ‘healthy’ is also a double whammy.
Being forced to eat your spinnach sucks because its NOT fatty and delicious.
Eating new unhealthy food when you dont want to Sucks because it can mentally feel like you’re poisoning yourself AND you don’t want to.
Honestly the win is getting your kid to try new things. No problem if they really dont like it and they are eating healthily. Becoming an adult is being able to eat all food as sustenance and not just pleasure. They’re a kid. No way they can understand that.
Instead focus on the lesson that trying new things can ‘suck’ and having a ‘bad’ outcome after trying something new is entirely acceptable (within bounds)
At some point you should know your child and understand their dietary preferences. Don’t cater exclusively to them but don’t make dinner more difficult for yourself just because you refuse to listen to what your kid likes.
While i agree, not polite to bring grilled cheese to a family meal and forcing them to make my kid a grilled cheese isnt either; at least not my family.
What? Like they brought grilled cheese for their child and then your child wanted grilled cheese too but you didn’t want to make them also make your kid a grilled cheese?
Uh, no like you bring them over to family hosting, show them what’s for dinner and then ask them what they would like and they ask for grilled cheese. Sorry for the poor explanation!
Ooooh gotcha yeah definitely valid annoyance, but also par for the course with some kids at a certain age unfortunately. Hope yall figure it out in the end!
This but, maruchan.
Someone here said this cartoon is typical of pre-adolescent brains. A friend who’s the local “Jewish mother” of her block had the kids next door visiting her kids for a play date. She asked them if they wanted some cheese for a snack.
“I want goat cheese” said the 6yo boy.
The older 8yo was a little more polite “Do you have any brie?”
True story and so perfect I had to add it to a fanfic I was writing.
This is awesome!
