The linked post shows how most non-tech people’s understanding of email is very very different from most of the people here.

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    Don’t explain anything, there’s literally no point. Why are nerds so insistent that people understand technology?

    Just tell people to make an account on any instance, whichever one you like best, and let them experience federation. Even if they never really understand what is happening they can still use the service. It’s not like any of them understand how email works, and yet they all use email. Understanding is worthless. Stop being nerds.

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      This is how you get people whining about there being 8 different “Politics” groups, and insisting they should be allowed to erase the identity of the hosting website.

      The patchwork nature of the fediverse is baked into the technology. If people don’t at least have a basic model for how it behaves, then they’re just going to get pissed off at it and leave.

      Ypu don’t need to know how an internal combustion engine works to drive, but you have to understand how driving works, both from the perspective of operating a car, and from that of the conventions of the road.

      “Just find a pretty car and hop behind the wheel” is bad advice for everyone.

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      Wife had to do this the other day. She catches me trying to explain and convince tech basically recommending something with an open door to say no or disagree why you like it. She says just tell them to use it and if they love you they will.

      And it’s true. I have my extended family on signal.

      Work on it, don’t only complain.

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      Why are nerds so insistent that people understand technology?

      Because technology forms the basis of the online environments we inhabit, and gives us the tools to tell how, say, our data is stored and processed.

      If you’re going to get in the water, it’s probably a good skill to be able to swim. If you’re going to drive a car and don’t have the faintest idea how the engine works, you’ll be at the mercy of manufacturers and mechanics.

      The solution to your issue is not that everybody should conform to the lowest common denominator of technology literacy, but that the general internet user should get a fucking idea of the environment they navigate.

      Stop being nerds

      Never.

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        Nerds don’t just want to teach people to swim. They want to teach them about hydrogen bonds and the mineral contents of the water, the processes of water treatment, and the technical requirements for a functional pool.

        Nerds don’t just want to teach people to drive. They want to teach them about the engine, the drive train, the underlying transportation infrastructure, and how to change their own oil and tires.

        If you want people to swim or drive or use the fediverse you skip all that shit. Normal people do not care.

        Stop being nerds.

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          Nerds don’t just want to teach people to drive. They want to teach them about the engine, the drive train, the underlying transportation infrastructure, and how to change their own oil and tires.

          Maybe if more people knew how combustion worked and where the gasoline they burn comes from we wouldn’t have as much global warming denialism.

          Similarly, if people knew how their posts were served though Facebook, what server costs are, and what their revenue model was, it wouldn’t come as such a surprise to them that their privacy was being violated.

          But I think you’re right though. I’ve given up on trying to convince the general public of literally anything, at least in the US where it’s clear the cult of ignorance has soundly won. How can I tell someone to that it’s better to use an electric car if they’re not willing to understand the carbon cycle? How can I tell someone it’s better to be vaccinated if they’re not willing to understand herd immunity? How can I tell someone that federated social media is better if they’re unwilling to understand what federation even is?

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          Nerds don’t just want to teach people to swim. They want to teach them about hydrogen bonds and the mineral contents of the water, the processes of water treatment, and the technical requirements for a functional pool.

          And I think that’s beautiful. There is nothing like watching someone explain something they’re passionate about.

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            There’s something wrong with hurting other people’s ability to access the fediverse with insufferable nerd explanations that have nothing to do with posting.

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              “hurting”? someone yapping about the fediverse is a minor inconvenience at worst. A TON of people that are on Lemmy don’t know how it works, or even care about how it works, and that’s perfectly OK. Nothing wrong with going on [email protected] and upvoting the cute cat pictures.

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          Well, apparently you consider basic maintenance like changing tires superfluous to driving. Says all I need to know about your mindset on the other subjects.

          Stop being nerds helplessly unskilled

          FTFY

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            The majority of people pay other people to do that stuff. Normal people don’t care about your nerd shit.

            I change my oil, oil filter, tires, battery, wipers, all that shit. It doesn’t fucking matter though, it’s all superfluous.

            Stop. Being. Nerds. Just let people be basic, stop insisting that they know everything before they’re allowed to drive.

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      People have been using email since they were five and all modern lives depend on it. If they don’t understand federation they will just be confused why they can’t see the content and leave. “I didn’t understand it and it didn’t work” is one of the more commons reasons I’ve seen on Reddit for failing lemmy

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        The entire world relies on email but you can blow people’s minds if you tell them you can read Outlook emails in Gmail or read Gmail mailboxes in Outlook. The days of everyone having a local email client are long behind us, people don’t know the difference between apps and servers anymore.

        “It works like email” means “oh, so I need to create a new account, like when I installed the Outlook app” to most people. Shockingly few people know the bare basics of how email works. You’ll be surprised how many people I’ve spoken to don’t understand that [email protected] isn’t the same person as [email protected]. I have been called a liar and a hacker for demonstrating I could send an email from [email protected]. Whatever you think the base level of technological knowledge the average person has, it’s ten times higher than what people actually know, and that includes young people.

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        Doesn’t it default to All? Or at least Local? Shouldn’t they just see a feed of everything if they go to the main page?

        The experience is almost exactly the same as Reddit if you don’t worry about federation or technicalities.

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            But they should still see content, even if they don’t understand anything.

            The only way they won’t is if the admins decided users shouldn’t see anything without first subscribing to something, which is a terrible way to ease people in to the service. There needs to be a default feed so normies can use it too!

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              Unless an instance enrolls in Lemmy-federate, the default behavior is that a user, even on the /all view, will only see local communities, and outside communities that another local user has sought out and subscribed to.

              If a newbie joins a small instance and doesn’t know how to seek out communities that interest them with lemmyverse.net, they would likely have a very small range of content in their feed.

              Lemmy-federate helps by auto subscribing an instance to participating communities, seeding a wide range of content immediately.

              A large instance would offer a good experience either way, but would encourage centralization without Lemmy-federate existing.

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      I think one of the main reasons why the fediverse didn’t blow up much bigger than it did over the past couple of years is because of the weird and insistent need to explain how it works from every possible angle with seemingly every possible analogy. It’s information overload and it only confuses the shit out of people who do not care in the slightest how it works.

      Hmm… maybe if we tell the nerds that they need to add an “abstraction layer” to their explanations that might motivate them to simplify?

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        In general, wouldn’t one of the English speaking instances be a better choice?

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          Long story short, there is no ideal generalist instance. If you open the top 20 instances (https://fedidb.org/software/lemmy/)

          • Lemmy.world is too big
          • Lemm.ee is federated with hexbear and lemmygrad, something that is not very welcoming to new users (see this thread: https://sh.itjust.works/post/28798607/15305964 )
          • sh.itjust.works names contains “shit”, which can deter users
          • lemmy.ca is Canadian-centric
          • feddit.org, as you mentioned, is German-centric, but technically English speaking too
          • dbzer0 federated hexbear
          • programming.dev is topic-centric (and has a database corruption for the last month https://programming.dev/post/20515601?scrollToComments=true)
          • blahaj is queer-focused
          • discuss.tchncs.de has a difficult name
          • lemmy.sdf.org does not defederate anyone
          • lemmy.zip is federated with hexbear and lemmygrad
          • sopuli.xyz doesn’t have “lemmy” or “feddit” in its name
          • beehaw is way outdated
          • infosec.pub is topic-centric
          • aussie.zone is country-centric
          • midwest.social is region-centric

          The next page has reddthat.com which is known to have federation issues with LW due to its location in Australia, and lemmy.today which does not defederate anyone

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      Don’t explain anything, there’s literally no point. Why are nerds so insistent that people understand technology?

      All people understand Ohm’s law now. It took only 150 years of explaining.

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        I promise you that if you collect 10 random people and ask them what Ohms law is, at most you get 5 that knows it’s something about electricity. You are lucky if you have one that knows it.

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          It’s taught in every school… At least in Europe.

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            I can only speak for myself here but… A lot of things are taught in school. Most of them weren’t something that I use everyday and thus have forgotten about it (some more than others, of course).

            Ohm’s Law would’ve been taught to me sometime during highschool (as the other commenter mentioned, I can tell you it relates to electricity but without looking it up I couldn’t tell you the actual principle behind it) - I graduated from highschool 10 years ago, and have not had a reason to “flex” that memory ever since then.

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          Yeah I know it has to do with resistance but I couldn’t quote it to you rn, I’d have to look it up. And I’m vaping rn at .4ohms lol.