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    Ah, we’re back to the Nextel era, hooray! Which itself was caused by the fact that Nextel PTT was just more convenient to use by grab-and-talk than it was to bother opening the phone and switching to the headset speaker.

    Tech bros and AirPods caused this current problem. Give a person something expensive, easy to lose, and unreliable that runs on batteries, they’re going to choose the safer loud option while traveling. Plain and simple. Tech bros see it as profit, completely ignoring the societal implications because that’s not their problem.

    Affordable common wired headphones included with the device that don’t interfere with the power jack, nor require a battery, should always be the way.

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      Damn so many Nextel push to talk ads just came rushing back into my memory.

      Also, how the fuck are AirPods “unreliable”??? I have a 1st gen pair that still works just as well as my other AirPod pro pair. They have hours of battery life and the case itself has an internal battery bank. How does profit have anything to do with wireless audio and the removal of phone jack??? They didn’t take away the jack to sell more headphones LMAO.

      I hate wires and I’ll physically fight anyone who says we shouldn’t do wireless simply because some anssholes exist.

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        Everything has its place. At my desk with my computer, I don’t want to worry about keeping something charged, and it’s only ever connected to my computer, so I’ll use wired. If I’m listening to music at home or playing games on the couch I’ll use wireless over the ear headphones, and if I’m out and about I’ll use my AirPods.

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    America Ignorant, selfish pricks, stopped using headphones.

    Let’s be real. You have to be pretty self absorbed to not realize how ignorant it is to walk around playing your music out loud or having a conversation on speakerphone instead of putting the damn phone to your ear.

    And its not just flights. Its busses, restaurants, waiting rooms, forest trails.

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      Oh there’s an easy solution. Talk loudly right next to someone carrying on a conversation out loud on the phone.

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      Some office environments too.

      Last place I was at, I worked nights pretty much solo. If my wireless earbuds died, sure, I’d play it out loud. I was the only one in the building. About an hour before anyone else started getting in, if my ear buds still hadn’t charged enough I turned it off.

      Partially to be respectful, and partially because some people get offended by metal even if they can’t understand the lyrics. And I mean, yeah, some bands can have unprofessional lyrics. I get it having been in the working world so long.

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        I feel this. There was one time where I was playing metal over my speakers, but I was the only one in the office and I was not playing it loudly. After a while a security guard was doing rounds and asked me “what the hell” I was listening to. “Cattle Decapitation,” I said, and they wrinkled their nose like someone shat in the trashcan and went on about how they can’t how anyone would like “that stuff” – I shrugged and said me neither and got back to my work.

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    I can’t stand going to a restaurant and having to hear a child’s tablet playing a video.

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      It’s a thing that inconsiderate people and just plain bad parents do

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      It does keep the kid from talking loudly and fidgeting and running around. But yeah if the tablet/phone is loud it’s annoying.

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        My kids are loud too. What keeps them from talking loudly and running around in a restaurant is me. (Why no fidgeting?) If you’ve got restaurant money but no more sanity or time, then bring them to fast food, not a nice place with social norms.

        Fuck yes it’s hard. Everyone has excuses, every child is different. None of those excuses are everyone else’s problem.

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          Fucking amen. I’ve never had issues with my kids in a restaurant because I waited until I knew they could handle it. Pretty god damned simple. Plus there’s just certain things you don’t allow like…running around unsupervised? Wtf is wrong with some people.

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          When I acted up, threw a tantrum, basically disturbed the peace, my mother would get up, take me outside away from others until I settled down. Did trips to the grocery store take some additional time some days? Yeah. But I learned pretty quick.

          This wasn’t some stay at home mom who had tons of free time. My mom worked 40+ hours a week, was the primary bread winner, and still did a decent job of raising me.

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    Why does that article feel so disjointed? Tgis paragraph was especially random:

    “I engaged once with a guy who had a different opinion. He was like, ‘I don’t think so. I don’t think it’s bothersome.’”

    No explanation or attribution for the quote. Just sandwiched in there

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    If it’s on speaker they want you to join the conversation, so don’t feel shy about joining and taking the conversation where you want it to go.

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    New iphones come with a USB-C cable.

    That’s it.

    They formerly came with cable, charger, and wired ear buds appropriate to the phone.

    Airlines distribute 3.5mm jack ear buds, if any at all.

    It’s already a potential failure point expecting people to remember to carry an accessory allowing them to listen privately even if one is provided with the device on an incredibly common connection type.

    But now they’re not included, you have to buy specialty USB-C ear buds or expensive airpods. More points of failure.

    Haven’t even touched on the asshole factor of individuals just not giving an F and listening to their devices on speaker without regard to their fellow humans.

    Every single flight I’ve been on there has been at least one individual VoIP calling, video watching, or gaming on their cell phone speaker that needed to be told to stop by the cabin crew.

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    Bring back the headphone jack. Dumping the 3.5mm jack is what brought this on.

    It is simple as that. I do not want to worry about the headphones being charged and losing another charging case and making more room for another thing to charge where i charge everything else.

    I do not want that at all.

    It was the dumbest thing to make me need batteries for headphones. And I don’t do any of this stuff that is in the article. But BRING BACK THE JACK.

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      People have been loud and obnoxious since long before Audio jacks were a thing, and they’re going to continue being loud and obnoxious long after your grandkids ask “what’s an audio jack?”

      Your glasses are nostalgia-tinted. The jack or its absence didn’t prevent or cause this.

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      I am still salty about this. I was generally neutral about Apple until the headphone thing, and now I just loathe the iPhone for forcing the bullshit of Bluetooth headphones in the world.

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        Most recent Androids don’t have an audio jack either. Samsung dropped it from their flagship products back in 2020, and that change made it slowly throughout their line. The Google Pixels don’t have headphone jacks, the Moto Edge I use doesn’t have a headphone jack, etc.

        Honestly, if you have a a phone made in the last few years that does have a headphone jack, I’m curious to know what kind.

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          FWIW, my last phone (until 3 weeks ago) was a OnePlus Nord N20. Absolutely stellar budget phone with a solid mid-range experience and features. It had a headphone jack AND an SD card slot, as well as dual SIM tray if that’s useful. I think it’s actually higher spec than the N30. You can still find those. OnePlus is pretty good about including a lot of that stuff, except on their flagship phones. Hope that’s helpful.

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            Yeah I seriously was considering one plus back in the day when they still had a jack (flagships). Was not impressed when they dropped that… And my memory, while bad - seems to recall that they said they weren’t going to remove it at one point.

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            The A71 came out in 2020, which was about when Samsung was phasing the jacks out. And they took them out of the S line first, which I always thought was weird - for a while, you had this feature that was present in their mid range phones, but completely absent in the more expensive flagships. They’re not the only ones that did that, of course, but it does seem kinda backwards.

            My Moto also does per-app volume, and I agree, it’s pretty rad.

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          When I tried Sony’s 5 IV last year, it came with a headphone jack. Most of Sony’s lineup comes with it I believe.

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            Sony didn’t release the Xperia VI in the US this year. It’s one less phone that supports an audio jack.

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          My Sony xperia 1 III still has a headphone jack and an excellent DAC too.

          The newest is the Xperia 1 VI, which also has a headphone jack.

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          Samsung Galaxy XCover 6 Pro. On top of the headphone jack, it has a removable battery and micro SD slot. I have my entire music collection and dozens of movies on a 1 TB card and I’ll never have to be online or pay for a damn subscription to enjoy them.

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        Because I have an audio jack

        Does it fit a standard 3.5mm headphone set? No? Then it’s a ‘jack’ and not a jack.

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          My Moto g power 5g 2024 has a standard 3.5mm headphone jack and I bought it new. Maybe buy phones with the features you want instead of whatever the latest fad phone is?

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      Hot take, but people that want 3.5 jacks back are just a (very) vocal minority. I’ve never met a single person IRL that prefers wired over wireless, I sure don’t miss getting my cable snagged on things or just having it dangling around. I have a nice set of wired Sennheisers for my PC and then decent wireless buds I use when I’m out.

      The headphone jack is not gonna come back. Buy an adapter if you care that much or just use wireless buds like 99% of people these days. Mine last a full 10 hour shift with battery to spare, a normal 8 hour shift isn’t gonna kill the batteries on your buds unless you buy 10$ garbage.

      Edit: also the 3.5 jack or cable generally stopped working or got fuzzy/bad connections long before the buds themselves started to go. Had to replace headphones so many times cause the jack got shitty or the cable wore out due to use. Sure the batteries in wireless buds will lose capacity over time but my current pair is over 2 years old and I only charge the case once a week with 40 hours of use per week.

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        Fun fact - a 3.5mm jack doesn’t stop you from using Bluetooth!

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        This is just stupid. The point is having options. It’s not like having a 3.5mm jack stopped you from having wireless buds. What do you mean “prefer wired over wireless” when everyone had the choice of both since fucking forever

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        When I worked for a phone manufacturer I learned that their market research found that features like a headphone jack and SD card slot were pretty exclusively needed at the budget end of the market while the higher end generally didn’t care about the lack of these features. I don’t know that I fully agree with this, but to some degree it kinda makes sense

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        It’s almost like that 99% is because they don’t have an alternate option.

        I’ve had phones from the '90s that still work, so not sure what $5 headphones you were using or what you were doing with them. I’m fairly confident that no matter what price point none of your pod things will function 20-30 years from now. Is that mean you haven’t lost them by then.

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        Instructions unclear. Ended up with a modern FLAC player with a headphone jack, now it’s full of music and I’m pirating again. Yo ho ho!

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          You can also get a bluetooth amp/dac and plug your wired headphones into there. I use a Qudelix 5k for my IEMs at home and I can just put it in my pocket if I want to take them out.

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          Out of curiosity what did ya get? Been looking into getting one myself, but its kinda a niche thing ya know.

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            Hifiman one, little square. He’s a nice little piece of kit. I put Rockbox on it. You lose Bluetooth but it dual boots into the stock firmware and hates my 2014 Civic anyway.

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      Phones still all have the tiny speaker for private listening tho

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    It only takes one asshole in a crowded subway car to ruin it for everyone. I like to read on the subway, but they’re basically telling me that if I want to drown out their tiktok videos, I need to bring something with me with my own audio to listen to over headphones, just to not hear them.

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    Obvioisly if someone’s on speaker phone it’s because they want you to join in the conversation. It’s your duty to gather round and give your loud & uninformed opinions

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    How do people not realize this?

    Take your phone off speaker phone. It isn’t a difficult concept. Entitled assholes. Keep your voice down so you don’t irritate the hell out of others. I don’t want to hear about your intestines. (BTW not aiming this at the op just at those that can’t figure this out.)

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        Have fun with that…

        I have called out rude people both politely and bluntly. Always is a conflict. So, just prepared to get into it.

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          Lots of people are intentionally rude, hoping someone says something because they’re addicted to rage and want to be “attacked” for something they feel is acceptable.

          They’ll immediately escalate, and especially in America you have no idea who has a gun. Making a reasonable request can be met with screaming and if you respond in kind then they feel “threatened”.

          Doesn’t really matter what happens at trial, a crazy person that was looking for conflict just pulled their gun. The next 5 minutes matter more than the next five decades.

          This means their current behavior becomes normalized, so now everyone is acting like it, people respond to anything with aggression because acting mentally unstable works. It makes the other person go away until you do it to someone even more unhinged.

          A polite request to someone like that is a sign of weakness and guarantees an escalation, so even reasonable people stop being polite and start with direction.

          The craziest are directing society.

          It’s not new and it’s not the first time, but it rarely works out well for society.

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            I don’t disagree with anything you said, but I also won’t live in fear of the crazies with guns (police excluded because holy fuck they will murder you and your family, including your dog, without remorse).

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            This is why you make sure to video the interaction.

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              That matters at the trial…

              But like I said, in that situation what happens in the next five minutes matters more than anything else. Whether that unhinged person decides to shoot you or not.

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          I do by joining into the conversation. People get offended but shut up, walk away, or call the person back later. In an airport or worse yet, an airplane I don’t worry about the conflict. On a subway, different story.

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          I have, too, depending on the size of the person rude.

          It’s weird… almost like rude people don’t like to be called rude and are happy to be rude in response to being called rude.

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        In theory a great idea. But more and more people are walking around with guns and more and more people believe violence is the answer to everything and more and more people are just completely unhinged because they have main character syndrome. I’m not risking getting shot.

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        Calling out rude people needs to be normalized.

        “It looks like it’s hard to hear when you use it like that. Why don’t you use it like a phone?”

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      Take your phone off speaker phone.

      Kids and idiots base their phone usage off vapid camera-ready idiots on reality TV whose entire usage is to play for an audience. They don’t understand that holding their phone like a slice of pizza

      • is against the design
      • makes it harder to hear
      • ruins the noise cancellation
      • looks absolutely ridiculous
      • may be delicious. Try it!

      And so it’s “monkey see, monkey do.”

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        I’m Norwegian, and travelled to the US in 2004. I remember people on the bus using their phones like this. On public transport. Never saw that in Norway back then.

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        The harder to hear might be true for the people they are talking to. But for the one holding the phone that we are talking about it is actually easier because of how the speakers are aimed. Personal experience on this.

        But if they would take it off speakerphone then the speaker is at their ear.

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        I don’t know about this. In my experience, the speakerphone speaker is way higher quality and easier to hear than the normal phone one. I just don’t make phone calls

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          I need the max call volume to be about 20% higher than it currently is to understand what is being said outside of an anechoic chamber.

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      Say, your telephone is sounding."

      “Oh!” Matt fumbled in his pouch and got out his phone. “Hello?”

      “That you, son?” came his father’s voice.

      “Yes, Dad.”

      “Did you get there all right?”

      “Sure, I’m about to report in.”

      “How’s your leg?”

      “Leg’s all right, Dad.” His answer was not frank; his right leg, fresh from a corrective operation for a short Achilles’ tendon, was aching as he spoke.

      “That’s good. Now see here, Matt-if it should work out that you aren’t selected, don’t let it get you down. You call me at once and-”

      “Sure, sure, Dad,” Matt broke in. “I’ll have to sign off-I’m in a crowd. Good-by. Thanks for calling.”

      Space Cadet, Robert A. Heinlein, written in nineteen fucking forty eight!

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      I had a flight back home from Vegas not too long ago and there was a loud woman who could not shut up near me. Even with my earbuds in I could still hear her going on about nonsense. And when we were trying to deplane there was a couple near me as well who were very vocal about how frustrated they were that it was taking so long for people to get off, because they just had to go smoke a cigarette 🙄

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        Pro tip: if you want to get off faster, fly first class. Not many in front of you.

        For those that say it’s too expensive. That’s what credit cards and checks are for. (Yes I’m being a smart ass for the past part).

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    I wonder if drug dealers also do this.

    (Henry’s phone rings with a machine gun ringtone. He answers it on speakerphone without a second thought.)

    • Yo, Peter! What’s up, man?
    • Henry, we need to talk about the new shipment of snow.
    • Yeah, what about it?
    • Tom’s got a fresh batch. Just crossed the border this morning. But we need to be careful, last time it was cut with too much crap.
    • Yeah, Tom is such a greedy bastard. What do you say we skip the payment part, and just paint the walls with his brains?
    • I thought you would never ask. I’ll bring the shotgun. See you at the train station at 6.
    • Cool see ya there. Bye.
    • Bye.

    (Henry looks at the bewildered people around him.)

    • What are you all looking at?
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      You jest, but I’ve spent a year+ homeless, often around fentanyl/meth addicts/dealers.

      I’ve heard conversations very similar to this, albeit with more slang, many times, either just on speaker phone, or with the volume turned up so loud without the speakerphone on that you can hear the whole convo anyway…

      I’ve heard this many times, on buses packed with people, at encampments, in shelters, at bus stops on the street, etc.

      They don’t look around bewildered and surprised afterward. They act jubilant, cocksure.

      They don’t give a fuck.

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        Reality is too absurd. You just can’t make satire of it when life is already satire of whatever delusional fantasies I have in my head.