I have heard from multiple people that eye contact is essential in letting a girl (or guy, I guess) know you’re interested.

But what is the 411 when it comes to said eye contact? Do you keep looking until she does? Do you then keep staring? Or is like looking at the sun? What’s the deal?

  • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
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    2 days ago

    The idea is that y’all both Exchange a glance long enough to both notice, short enough to not creep each other out. A subtle smile to seal the deal.

    Then go say hi to confirm.

    If you feel awkward at any point either you suck or the answer is no, that’s where the real skills is at IMHO

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      23 hours ago

      I feel awkard at literally all times, even when alone. Got any tips for that, aside from not sucking?

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      2 days ago

      The fact that your autocorrect is capitalizing Exchange makes me think you’ve had some bad times.

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        Not OP but I’ll often rework what I’ve written and sometimes a word that was the start of a sentence is no longer the start, but fuck, doing it all on mobile can be a pain in the ass and I don’t always notice or bother to correct it.

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          20 hours ago

          I just assumed it meant they were working on Exchange servers which is a guaranteed bad time.